Down a groomsman...

SO FH and one of his best friends basically had a falling out. Its a very long story so I wont get into it all, but basically he has a white trash girlfriend who has a little boy (this isn't why she is wt- Ill get into that) and they broke up like 2 weeks ago. She is nuts! She was telling him she was going to take pills and get drunk and said her little boy hates him- so she was using her child as a weapon! And she was accusing him of going off with another girl when he was at my apartment having dinner with me and FH.
Then she called FH and asked him some stuff and got mad when FH said he didn't want to get involved and called him an a-hole.
Well they ended up back together and this guy has been avoiding FH and wont return his calls and yesterday FH gets an email from him saying that this girl claims that FH has 'been trying to get with her.' So FH tries talking to the guy and he wont call him or meet up with him so basically FH said he is done with him and doesn't want people like that in his life or in our wedding. Its very sad cus they have been friends for a very long time and its always sad to lose a friend.

I am very sorry this has happened to you and your FH. Fh's friend's gf is probably jealous that you and FH are getting married so she is trying to cause problems. It seems as though she will cause future problems for your ex-groomsman.
I know it is sad that your groomsman can not be part of your special day but it sounds as though it's for the best. You do not want his gf sabotaging anything.

i'm so sorry that really stinks. It was the right thing for your FH to not want to get involved.. because when people put thier 2 cents in and then ..like they did.. people get back together..it's always weird! This girl sounds like a real piece of 'work' .... And it's sad that her little boy has to suffer for that you should never use your child to get back at someone!
it really $ucks that your FH had to lose a long time friend over some stupid girl. Sounds like it's his loss because this girl will only mess with his head and heart and he'll be down a friend.

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

I am very sorry this has happened to you and your FH. Fh's friend's gf is probably jealous that you and FH are getting married so she is trying to cause problems. It seems as though she will cause future problems for your ex-groomsman.
I know it is sad that your groomsman can not be part of your special day but it sounds as though it's for the best. You do not want his gf sabotaging anything.

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We don't know her very well cus she would'nt let FH's friend spend time with his friends, but we can tell from the few times we have hung out with ehr that she is very very immature for a 23 year old and she is very sneaky!

That just s*cks.

IMO, there is little your FH can do. I hope that when he comes to his senses, he reaches out to FH, and they can be friends again.

that succks it is hard to lose friends specially when it beacuse a of a gf or bf ...i hope everything works out

Thanks girls! Its totally sad and suks this had to happen, and FH is saying he doesn't care and doesn't need him- but I know he is really hurt by this.