I asked my last bridesmaid on Saturday and it has caused SO MUCH DRAMA in the friend group that it’s not even funny anymore! One girl thought I was going to pick her even though we’re not close at all…I don’t know anything about her. Anyway, all the girls are attacking me and my judgment saying that she kissed a$$ to be in my bridal party. W T F??? I just feel like they’re ruining what is an awesome experience for me by criticizing my choices and basically not being real friends. Just needed to vent.
grrulz
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tell them to let u beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Iluvpoodles
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Tell them it's your wedding and you'll choose who you want.
halfbaked
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Wow, they sound really immature. Tell em they can make their own decisions when it's their turn to get married.
AwaitingAugust
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don't listen to them. only you can know if you made the right decision (though based on what you've told me, you have) ...
BriansWifey
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ughh thats aweful its ur decision and they should leave it at that. theire nagging isnt gonna help em get in the bp
lori7570
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***??? That's super annoying...what ********
Becca2010
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You know how your friends are and how you truly feel about them. That's all that matters. Hopefully the complaining will die down. If any of them say something again, explain that you feel very strongly about your decisions and you don't appreciate them second guessing you!
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aww sorry you're going through this alyssa! some girls can be real bi+ches! don't let it effect you, just tell them that you have your own reasons for making the decisions you made.
asg450
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what's wrong with people. it's your bridal party and you choose who's in it.
Diana508
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I swear, weddings bring out the worst in people. I'm sorry you're going through this.
marinai7
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They're just jealous. Just try to ignore them and be confident in the choice you made.
allornil
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whats funny about this to me is that I wouldn't want to be in most people's bridal parties. I never get why people want to be in a BP of people they're not close with.
unbelievable! they ki$$ed your a$$ so they could be picked?? yeah they sound like real quality people thank god u didn't pick them!
iHeartMoogle
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Thank you ladies! Unfortunately the drama has spewed off in many directions. I don't think not being a bridesmaid is what they have to worry about anymore...we'll see if they're even invited to the wedding at this point!
