I have a step-sister that lives in FLA and is getting married in May..I am not invited to the wedding and neither are my siblings. The 'reason' according to my step-mother is that my step-sister's father is paying for it and told her she can only invite a certain number of people. I don't believe it but whatever.
Well, I sent out my STD's and I did not send one to her and her FH. Yesterday my father asks me if I want step-sister's address and my first response was 'what for?'. I couldn't talk to him about it because my step-mother was right there. However, i really don't want to invite her. It's not that I don't like her it's just that I don't think that I should invite her to my wedding if I am not good enough to be invited to her wedding!
Is it even worth it to start this?
Edited to hopefully make more sense!
Watermelon5
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Im not sure i understand what you mean? But if she isnt inviting you then i wouldnt invite her b/c obvi you're not that close! I dont think theres anything wrong w/ that since clearly you're not invited to her wedding!!
eta: i can't spell LOL
FutureMrsCat050412
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I wouldn't....you need to prove a point!
but then again people always say to 'be the bigger person'.... uhhhhh i hate when people say that!
mara1017
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No way...if she is not inviting you why would you invite her
bella_bride
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Def would NOT invite her!
linda_art
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it depends... if you could afford to, then it wouldn't hurt and it would make your dad happy. Sometimes, not always, it's nice to be the bigger person. JMO.
FutureMrsGTL
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If shes not inviting you... then I wouldnt invite her. I think thats perfectly reasonable.
aef3333
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I definitely wouldn't invite her either! Saying she's not inviting you because of a limited number of people kind of seems like BS and just shows that you must not be that important. So I wouldn't invite her.
roblisa09
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Don't even bother thinking about this crap!!! Not worth it!
Jill52787
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I def wouldn't!!!
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Posted by linda_art
it depends... if you could afford to, then it wouldn't hurt and it would make your dad happy. Sometimes, not always, it's nice to be the bigger person. JMO.
ITA... the biggest point being it'll make your dad happy and save him some grief. That's why I would probably just invite them.
PeaceLoveWedding
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And you'll get a present if you invite her haha
CaughtMyFish
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I'm a real bword and would definitely NOT invite them. Tell stepfather exactly why and see what he says, if it makes you feel better.
Evan820
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I think it sort of depends on how big your wedding is. If you are having over 200, then what's 2 more and it will make your dad happy, but if it's under that number, then i would have to say you can prolly tell your dad you are just not that close
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if step-sister isn't inviting you to hers, I don't see why step-mom would have any ground to say anything, so i don't see why there would/should be grief for your dad, but I'm sure there will be anyway.
I don't know, I think I would not invite her. You don't seem close it's not worth it. Though, maybe since she's far away she wouldn't come even if you do invite her! lol
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i personally would not bother inviting her. She didn't invite you to hers, which means that if she was limited to the # of ppl she was going to invite, you weren't important enough to put in that list. So why should she feel that she is soo important to go to your wedding. I wouldn't even bother with her.
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I personally would not.
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Posted by bella_bride
Def would NOT invite her!
this!!
if your dad thinks its an issue of you not inviting her, then why didn't he question and push for you being invited to her wedding?? (sry if I am overstepping with that one!!)
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I personally wouldn't bother. If she's hurt by it, then that's her problem. Who cares whose paying for it? You have limits too, so obviously you aren't all that close and there's no need to stress yourself by even considering it.
Sometimes people need to back off because it's not a family reunion, it's not about then, and you should be able to do as you please because you and your FH are the only ones who need to be happy.
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Posted by dmbfan36 However, i really don't want to invite her.
Crshing
THIS IS ALL IT MATTERS.....
U DONT WANT HER ..
There is UR answer chica....
Dont invite her. She didnt invite u to urs.. Dont invite her.
