Has anyone ever had a dream where DH was cheating on you?
I have, and one was with my sister.
It's weird, because we've never had trust issues nor do we now.
Any thoughts? Anyone experience the same thing?
JanuaryBride06
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YES. I've also had dreams where he just picks up and leaves me for no reason.
I wake up pretty pizzed at him. But I'll admit, I've had cheating dreams too (in which I sometimes say 'I can't -- my DH is sleeping next to me!' - it doesn't stop me in dream land though).
I've had them enough times to come to the conclusion that they don't mean anything.
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Has anyone ever had a dream where DH was cheating on you?
No, but I had one I cheated on him, I was SOOO upset, even when I woke up.
kittythestray
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I've had them enough times to come to the conclusion that they don't mean anything.
I feel the same way. Last night I cheated on him with Jennifer Lopez
chikita315
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YES. I've also had dreams where he just picks up and leaves me for no reason.
I wake up pretty pizzed at him. But I'll admit, I've had cheating dreams too (in which I sometimes say 'I can't -- my DH is sleeping next to me!' - it doesn't stop me in dream land though).
I've had them enough times to come to the conclusion that they don't mean anything.
So I'm not completely insane? I totally wake up the same way. I feel so betrayed. I've had dreams where I've cheated as well. But those don't upset me nearly as much.
chikita315
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Posted by JanuaryBride06
I've had them enough times to come to the conclusion that they don't mean anything.
I feel the same way. Last night I cheated on him with Jennifer Lopez
That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
JanuaryBride06
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Posted by JanuaryBride06
YES. I've also had dreams where he just picks up and leaves me for no reason.
I wake up pretty pizzed at him. But I'll admit, I've had cheating dreams too (in which I sometimes say 'I can't -- my DH is sleeping next to me!' - it doesn't stop me in dream land though).
I've had them enough times to come to the conclusion that they don't mean anything.
So I'm not completely insane? I totally wake up the same way. I feel so betrayed. I've had dreams where I've cheated as well. But those don't upset me nearly as much.
No, you're not. This probably isn't the last one that you'll have either. And I don't feel nearly as upset about my dream-cheating, either.
Kara, you cheated with J-lo? I cheat with stupid exes and guys whose faces I never see...
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Yes, I think it's natural (or at least I hope it is!).
Sometimes the dreams are just him flirting and he doesn't understand why I think it's more than 'harmless'. And he keeps doing worse stuff so by the time I wake up I'm actually mad at him!!
The other night I had a dream and got pretty upset that he was 'favoring' his ex-wife over me. They were kinda ignoring me and then when I said something they were saying how immature I was, it really hurt but I know it would never be true in real life. That was pretty rough but then I woke up and when I saw him lying in bed next to me I was fine again.
kittythestray
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Kara, you cheated with J-lo? I cheat with stupid exes and guys whose faces I never see...
Normally it's a faceless guy, but this thing with J-Lo was VERY creepy
kittythestray
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That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
Hmmmmm.... is it even cheating when it's a woman???
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That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
Hmmmmm.... is it even cheating when it's a woman???
It isn't cheating when it is with a woman, it is your husbands fantasies migrating over to your head. LOL
JessicaM.
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Posted by JanuaryBride06
I've had them enough times to come to the conclusion that they don't mean anything.
I feel the same way. Last night I cheated on him with Jennifer Lopez
That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
M-lo, don't be a CB!
I have dreams like that all the time. totally normal. sex is sex...it's hedonistic and pleasureful...so in your dreams you think of all these things that will feel good...even if you ID won't allow you to do them in your waking day.
anyone with a tongue, and some fingers (penis a bonus, but not necessarily necessary) can bring you pleasure...but your heart...it belongs to your dh...you have the best reality!
but beware...at the GTG, your as$ belongs to me!
JessicaM.
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That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
Hmmmmm.... is it even cheating when it's a woman???
according to my DH...that is a resounding HELL NO (totally allowable...as long as I show him a pic or tell him about it LOL)
kittythestray
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Posted by chikita315
That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
Hmmmmm.... is it even cheating when it's a woman???
according to my DH...that is a resounding HELL NO (totally allowable...as long as I show him a pic or tell him about it LOL)
Are you asking me out?
JessicaM.
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Posted by chikita315
That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
Hmmmmm.... is it even cheating when it's a woman???
according to my DH...that is a resounding HELL NO (totally allowable...as long as I show him a pic or tell him about it LOL)
Are you asking me out?
I'm too shy for that
FormerlyKnownAsQ
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Posted by JessicaM.
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Posted by chikita315
That's actually pretty hot. Don't tell JessM she may want to reenact at the GTG.
Hmmmmm.... is it even cheating when it's a woman???
according to my DH...that is a resounding HELL NO (totally allowable...as long as I show him a pic or tell him about it LOL)
Are you asking me out?
I'm too shy for that
You shy????????????? That's like saying Paris Hilton is a virgin.
Dom n Nic
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Has anyone ever had a dream where DH was cheating on you?
I have, and one was with my sister.
It's weird, because we've never had trust issues nor do we now.
Any thoughts? Anyone experience the same thing?
i always have dreams that dh is cheating on me lmaoooooooooo think that could be telling me something lmaooooo lol and he knows when i ihave a dream like that because 1 i wont talk to him or 2 i will hit him when i wake up
