dress opinion...WITH POLL!!!

hi girls. i'm still losing weight, but i still hate my arms. they are better, but not perfect and i only have a month left.. do you think i should have the seamstress add some sort of off-shoulder/cap sleeve type of thing to my dress, or should i just shut up and rock the dress?? pic in album (if someone can post, i promise big hugs!) TIA for your opinions.

PS..that's NOT me in the pic! i'll have pics after my next fitting though! :o)

ETA: i commented at end :o)

I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

now with that out the way....

shut up and rock that darn thing LOL

No sleeves! it has such clean lines and is so nice as it .....I could be biased b/c I am not a fan of sleeves/ boleros etc ....

You will be beautiful. We are our own harshest critics. Do you think FH will see you and say oh she looks great but not those arms LOL


We just have to learn to embrace ourselves 'flaws' and all.....if you are that worried get a simple wrap or a sheer shawl or something so you can cover yourslef in some pics...JMO

HTH you will be FAB no worries!

That dress is so beautiful, it would be a shame to do anything to it.

And most importantly, YOU'RE beautiful, and will look fabulous regardless of what you might think of yourself.

I am giving you a HUGE Stacy London SHUT UP AND LEAVE the dress alone... OMG do NOT worry about your arms (I hate mine too, I feel your pain) but honestly you will lose the integrity of that AMAZING dress!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE don't add to it!

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Posted by 9509Bride

I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

now with that out the way....

shut up and rock that darn thing LOL

No sleeves! it has such clean lines and is so nice as it .....I could be biased b/c I am not a fan of sleeves/ boleros etc ....

You will be beautiful. We are our own harshest critics. Do you think FH will see you and say oh she looks great but not those arms LOL


We just have to learn to embrace ourselves 'flaws' and all.....if you are that worried get a simple wrap or a sheer shawl or something so you can cover yourslef in some pics...JMO

HTH you will be FAB no worries!

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aww! you totally made me laugh just now with the FH comment hahaha. thanks so much. i def need to learn to get over myself. hopefully by the wedding, i'll have done just that! but thanks so much for your input!

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Posted by twoifbysea

I am giving you a HUGE Stacy London SHUT UP AND LEAVE the dress alone... OMG do NOT worry about your arms (I hate mine too, I feel your pain) but honestly you will lose the integrity of that AMAZING dress!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE don't add to it!

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omg i totally heard her in my head! i kinda totally see that if i added to it, it'd ruin the dress look. thanks for your thoughts on the subject :o)

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Posted by MrsJuneB2B

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Posted by 9509Bride

I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

now with that out the way....

shut up and rock that darn thing LOL

No sleeves! it has such clean lines and is so nice as it .....I could be biased b/c I am not a fan of sleeves/ boleros etc ....

You will be beautiful. We are our own harshest critics. Do you think FH will see you and say oh she looks great but not those arms LOL


We just have to learn to embrace ourselves 'flaws' and all.....if you are that worried get a simple wrap or a sheer shawl or something so you can cover yourslef in some pics...JMO

HTH you will be FAB no worries!

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aww! you totally made me laugh just now with the FH comment hahaha. thanks so much. i def need to learn to get over myself. hopefully by the wedding, i'll have done just that! but thanks so much for your input!

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YAY (now leave that dress ALONE missy!)

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Posted by Sweeteey51

Dont you dare touch that dress is freakin gorgeous. You look fine dont be over critical of yourself.

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thanks for posting it. and i'm pretty quickly figuring out that ya'll will kick my *** if i do anything to it. :o) i def have to work on the attitude. thanks so much!

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Posted by MrsJuneB2B

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Posted by twoifbysea

I am giving you a HUGE Stacy London SHUT UP AND LEAVE the dress alone... OMG do NOT worry about your arms (I hate mine too, I feel your pain) but honestly you will lose the integrity of that AMAZING dress!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE don't add to it!

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omg i totally heard her in my head! i kinda totally see that if i added to it, it'd ruin the dress look. thanks for your thoughts on the subject :o)

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YOU WILL BE BEAUTIFUL HUN!!!!!!!!!! TRUST THAT!!

BTW I'm in LOVE with your dress, it's scrumptious!!!!! I love the bling accent!

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Posted by coldasice217

That dress is so beautiful, it would be a shame to do anything to it.

And most importantly, YOU'RE beautiful, and will look fabulous regardless of what you might think of yourself.

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thanks so much for the vote of confidence ali!!

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Posted by twoifbysea

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Posted by MrsJuneB2B

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Posted by twoifbysea

I am giving you a HUGE Stacy London SHUT UP AND LEAVE the dress alone... OMG do NOT worry about your arms (I hate mine too, I feel your pain) but honestly you will lose the integrity of that AMAZING dress!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE don't add to it!

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omg i totally heard her in my head! i kinda totally see that if i added to it, it'd ruin the dress look. thanks for your thoughts on the subject :o)

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YOU WILL BE BEAUTIFUL HUN!!!!!!!!!! TRUST THAT!!

BTW I'm in LOVE with your dress, it's scrumptious!!!!! I love the bling accent!

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i will!! that bling thing is why i fell in love too. (one of many reasons actually :o) thanks so much.

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Posted by 9509Bride

I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

now with that out the way....

shut up and rock that darn thing LOL

No sleeves! it has such clean lines and is so nice as it .....I could be biased b/c I am not a fan of sleeves/ boleros etc ....

You will be beautiful. We are our own harshest critics. Do you think FH will see you and say oh she looks great but not those arms LOL


We just have to learn to embrace ourselves 'flaws' and all.....if you are that worried get a simple wrap or a sheer shawl or something so you can cover yourslef in some pics...JMO

HTH you will be FAB no worries!

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couldnt of said it better! ITA!

Leave the dress be!! The dress is gorgeous as is and will look fabulous on you .

I LOVE your dress the way it is, dont touch it. After seeing your dress Im doubting mine with 3 months away.

Rock that dress!! don't add sleeves. . you don't need them. .don't need em. . rock it rock it!! no more doubts!!!!!!!

and omg the stacy london made me laugh!!!

okay okay okay! i get it. shut up and rock the dress :o) you girls are the best!! thanks for the confidence boost! and i promise not to do anything bad to my dress :o)

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Posted by 9509Bride

I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

now with that out the way....

shut up and rock that darn thing LOL

No sleeves! it has such clean lines and is so nice as it .....I could be biased b/c I am not a fan of sleeves/ boleros etc ....

You will be beautiful. We are our own harshest critics. Do you think FH will see you and say oh she looks great but not those arms LOL


We just have to learn to embrace ourselves 'flaws' and all.....if you are that worried get a simple wrap or a sheer shawl or something so you can cover yourslef in some pics...JMO

HTH you will be FAB no worries!

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ITA!!!

Also, if you even added sleeves... that would really just cover your shoulders and not so much your arms... so why even bother? I think you should so just rock it! Also, do some arm exercises from now until then to get some confidence.

i think that dress is perfect as is. The sleeves might not look right on that type of dress!! Also you got a dress that's slimming with the way the material folds and how it pulls in at the waste... all anyone will be looking at is the pretty middle of the dress and your face. You will look beautiful.

I totally get where you are coming from though... after all we are our own worst critic. I have my own weight issues!

ROCK IT GIRL!

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Posted by KerriJohnS

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Posted by 9509Bride

I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

now with that out the way....

shut up and rock that darn thing LOL

No sleeves! it has such clean lines and is so nice as it .....I could be biased b/c I am not a fan of sleeves/ boleros etc ....

You will be beautiful. We are our own harshest critics. Do you think FH will see you and say oh she looks great but not those arms LOL


We just have to learn to embrace ourselves 'flaws' and all.....if you are that worried get a simple wrap or a sheer shawl or something so you can cover yourslef in some pics...JMO

HTH you will be FAB no worries!

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ITA!!!

Also, if you even added sleeves... that would really just cover your shoulders and not so much your arms... so why even bother? I think you should so just rock it! Also, do some arm exercises from now until then to get some confidence.

i think that dress is perfect as is. The sleeves might not look right on that type of dress!! Also you got a dress that's slimming with the way the material folds and how it pulls in at the waste... all anyone will be looking at is the pretty middle of the dress and your face. You will look beautiful.

I totally get where you are coming from though... after all we are our own worst critic. I have my own weight issues!

ROCK IT GIRL!

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thanks so much kerri :o)