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Dresses- FH is driving me crazy

nrvbrd Posted:

Dresses- FH is driving me crazy

Yesterday we were off of course due to the holiday so I made FH watch a wedding story with me yesterday morning. One of the ladies had on a beautiful tulle gown. He then made a comment that wedding gowns have that same boring look- Cinderella. He then started looking through my Martha Stewart Wedding magazine and he picked out a dress that he liked and it as very straight and tight fitting.

I wanted to cry. I am so worried he will not like my dress. Originally I was going to go with a more slink dress, but that is how I always dress, for that one day out of the year I wanted to look like a princess.

My dress is beautiful to me. It is sexy, yet princessy. It is on the david's bridal website style 2295E.

Sorry for the vent, but one more thing to worry about looking good for my guy.
prncssrachel Posted:

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He will forget every preconceived notion he has about 'cinderella' dresse when he sees you walking down the aisle! I would remind him that he doesn't know what your dress looks like and that he should watch what he says! (in a nice, joking way you can tell him!) Don't worry!!!!!
MrsTC Posted:

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Keisha, I agree 100% with Rachel! He will forget what he said when he sees you. What do guys know about dresses anyway! LOL.

Besides, maybe he was trying to get you to tell him what yours looks like?
xjulietx Posted:

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He is going to be so excited about getting married that your dress will just be a white blur. Don't worry. Many guys say they want their bride to wear something sleek, but deep down, most guys like the traditional wedding gown. You have plenty of years together to wear form fitting gowns, wear the dress you always dreamed of. And remember that how you carry yourself will make all the difference. He may say he likes a more form-fitting dress, but he may just like the sex appeal you exude when your wear one.

prncssrachel Posted:

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BTW, I just looked at your dress on the David's website, and it's Beautiful! It's not all poofy and tully, so I don't think he would notice even if he was trying to! I mean, really, he's a boy, what do they usually notice anyway? Haha, j/k!

julybride444 Posted:

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Don't worry, he will be so psyched when he sees you. My FH did the same thing at first, he kept picking out these sexy sheaths...which look nice-but if I dyed it black I could where it to an event later...I wanted something different. When he saw me in it though (yes he went with me)...he loved it, and mostly he loved me in it

Besides, I looked at your dress, and the halter is very sexy
cw0904 Posted:

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Kysha don’t worry. When he sees you on your wedding day he won’t know what tulle, sillk, Cinderella stye or material is. He will be too GOO GOO GAA over you and your beauty!
N&L2004 Posted:

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Is this your dress? I think it's beautiful and sexy at the same time. I am sure your FI going to love the way you look no matter what you wear, so you have nothing to worry about

nrvbrd Posted:

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Thanks for posting my dress!!!!

I love it!!!! That picture does not do it justice.

Thanks for the responses. You know how guys can be. My guy though I love him with all of my heart, has strange taste at times.
Sunny Posted:

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Fh looks at pics of dresses and pics a different style every time without even knowing it. Don't worry- he will love whatever you wear.

Sassy Posted:

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Girl, I'm gonna beat him over his head
Don't you give it another thought. You will be so beautiful, like the girls said he won't know the difference between tule, sheath, or otherwise. He will just know that you are HIS Princess
Adrianna Posted:

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I showed a picture of my dress to my FI and he wasn't to crazy about it, he kept telling me he has to see me in it. He will love you and think you are beautiful regardless of what dress you wear and don't worry what he thinks about the dress now, when it is all put together you will look like the princess you want to be and he will treat you that way.

pschica Posted:

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don't worry hon - he might like the look on them but he will be dazzled by you on your wedding day - he would probably die if he knew that what he said worries you now...it was an innocent comment that i am sure he didn't mean! your dress is gorgeous and you picked it b/c you loved it - well, he loves you and therefore, by default, will also love the dress - or anything you might wear!!!

Thrilled Posted:

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Kysha - was that the Halloween wedding? It came on at 10:30 am yesterday on TLC...the one before that was the African-American couple where the FH was military? Going to Europe?

That Halloween wedding was weirrrrrrd, IMO. She looked gorgeous though. Don't worry about FH's reaction...he will be bowled over no matter what.
nrvbrd Posted:

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Hey Rachel!!!

Yes that Halloween wedding was weird. I do not know if I would have the guts to go through with that . I did love her dress, I would not have gone as poufy as she did, but I thought she was beautiful!!!!

As for the first miltary couple- I did not like her look at all. She was sooo plain IMO.

Thanks for all of the kind words ladies!!!
Anniegrl Posted:

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I saw the Halloween wedding - strange, but I bet the guests had a blast!

Thrilled Posted:

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And how much alike did the groom and his brother look on that Halloween wedding? And did you see the groom's nails were painted black?!

My mother would have died.

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