DUH!!!!

I was talkin got my FMIL and she asked me if I wouldn't mind havin gmy Bridal shower in the basement of the church. I had already told all my girls, FMIL and My mom that I didn't want it at a restaurant. I want it at a house, you know something low key. Now, I really don't mind having it at the church, because I know it can be decorated really nice and stuff, and I told FMIl this when she asked me. My problem is that I LOVE suprises, and now I'm afraid that it won't be a suprise....at someones house I won't really figure it out. WHen someone has me just randomly go to the church, I think I'll figure it out. What do I do? I know it will be nice at the church or at home, and plus most likely it will be in the wintery weather so a home is gonna be tight quarters anyway, but I really want it to be a suprise! Why did she even have to say anything!!!!!!!!!!