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E-party etiquette question?

NewYorker09 Posted:

E-party etiquette question?

I'll start off by saying I'm not throwing the E-party, someone else is throwing it for us. I understand that you can't invite people to the E-party who aren't invited to the wedding . . . but my question is, does that include kids? The E-party is a very casual backyard party and most of the invites that went out said 'Mr and Mrs Smith and Family'. What is concerning me a little is that we're not inviting children to the wedding. FH says people will understand that but I'm a tiny bit worried. What do you girls think?

runnerbride1023 Posted:

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I think its ok to invite them to the e-party and not the wedding. At least i hope so, b/c thats what I am doing!!

I think people expect to find babysitters for evening weddings, but not on a sunday morning.
Lsorrent Posted:

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I'd say it's ok, since your e-party isn't really very formal. I didn't invite kids to my e-party, but I figured the parents would want an afternoon away.

LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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i think thats fine to invite them to the e-party and not the wedding!

FallBride2010 Posted:

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I hope people understand! I invited kids to the e-party b/c it was laid back and in the yard. But I dont want them at the wedding!!

iHeartMoogle Posted:

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I think you should be fine because you're having an informal engagement party. I'm planning on doing the same thing!

FutureMrsSoltan Posted:

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I think you should be fine ..... If you are that worried than I would put on the invitation adult reception only !

Soon2bMrsH Posted:

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We are doing the same thing. we invited kids to our backyard BBQ e- party. i think its fine to do it that way. the only kids that are invited to the wedding are the kids in the bridal party- and thats if the parents want to take them.
MrsCM Posted:

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FH's uncle brought his kids to our outdoor e-party and they aren't invited to the wedding. They know they aren't invited to the wedding but everyone had a great time! Don't sweat it!

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