E Party Question, Is this tacky or what ??

Hey Girls, ( sorry so long )
Just wondering if any of you have encountered this yet..

We are having our e party next month, its being thrown by my parents. It just for immed family , basicaly for the families to meet.. The only other people we are including is who is in out WP. Which again , is basically our family ,cept for 2 friends of ours.

Our familys are so da* big that this party for just 'immed' family has grown to approx 50 people..

So this is the 'tacky' thing,

My FH has a friend whom he is close to , but not in the wedding party, They speak every few weeks or so. I know hi wife, not well but know her thru my FH. We actually went away with them once, but she has a huge mouth & ran it to my FH ex. Needles to say , I dont like her very much, but I tolerate her if I have to,,

She had the nerve to call me ystrdy & as me this . vertabium

She goes, I really dont know how to as this , so I will just come out & ask, 'why isnt me & my husband invited to your f'in engagement party'

HELLO !!!
This is where bridzilla kicked it in high gear

I was like 1st of
Its my enagagemnt party !! not my f'in engagment party & 2nd, its for family , no friends, .. She was then like , well why is so & so going,, I was like he is in the wedding party thats why. In other words to let her know her husband isnt in it . & Then I ws like not for nothing , MY parents are throwing it for me, & Its really not your business who I invite & whom I dont invite, With that I was, like listen I gotta go , im late for work & I hung up,,

I am still beside myself,,

The nerve Like if someone didnt invite me to something , I would neverrrrrr call em & say why aint I invited, especially like that..

My FH called her husband , but they have been playing phone tag.. Incredible,,
I guess let the fun begin huh !!!!

This is what people talk about huh?