Eeeek! Look at this from '06

Is this what we have to look forward to? LOL They are saying they've gained weight since they've said, ' I DO!'

I hope we don't have a post like this years to come...


http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic-419481-1.html

i feel i have gained since being proposed to I think its this weird comfort thing now, im like oh well dont have to look great ALL the time any more lol

OH NO!! It's bad enough that i gained some weight over the past year. I can't possibly get any bigger

its not just marriage its getting into serious relationships PERIOD!!! once i started dating FH i gained weight, then i said ok i really have to do something about this and really worked out, of course ive even put a little weight on after that again and have lost again lol...Its normal, i mean when i was single i was going out dancing every single weekend which was quite a workout lol, i didn't go out to dinners all the time and i was always out and about running around. Plus going out to clubs every weekend being single i felt like ppl would criticize more the way i look and why im single lol stupid but true, plus one big thing is going out every single weekend and going to places like Neptunes, and many other places where girls had these amazing bodies and always feeling compared to them its different.

Once we get in relationships, going out to dinners becomes alot more frequent, staying home more and just ordering out, spending weekends at home watching a movie and pigging out or going out to dinner is more of all our lives so its understandable. Right before I met Fh i was 116, and i wouldve been the same now

lately though i have to admit, ive said ok why am i letting myself go...i would get out of work looking like a mess and didn't care, even just going out it was like eh ok whatever or i gained some weight who cares...Now im like but no i want FH to still look at me and be like WOW yes in his heart he feels like that but still want to look a certain way for him. So now i do dress up alot more often again and fixing myself up, working out again.

I gained weight after me and fh started getting really serious....i guess subconsciously you're just like 'ahhh, what the heck, I already got him'

i gained weight since the holidays last yr. around 15 plbs.. that was a big problem for me.. and i think getting engaged has really motivated me.. so i've lost 7plbs so far. i totally understand the happy weight..the only reason i didnt gain any when i was first with FH is cause i was always heavy and i had lost a lot... so i was always real strict about the way i ate... i didn't put all this on until the end of last yr.. 3 + yrs into the relationship.. the new job i started really screwed up my eating habits..so hopfully the next time and only time i gain weight after i'm married is when i'm PG