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MsGibson07 Posted:

Emotional breakdown....

MsGibson07 Posted:

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Sorry about that... does any other bride to be feel overwhelmed?? I am 38 days away and I just had a breakdown at work!!!! My fiance always says he is going to help but never does... I hope I am not alone in feeling like this
gaccrrm Posted:

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It happens. I had mine on Tuesday. I am so overwhelmed. On top of wedding planning I just got a promotion (which is good, but learning a new job), my mom is sick with cancer, my younger brother had back surgery yesterday and FH doesn't help with anything house related or wedding related. Just take a deep breathe and everything will work out. At least that is what I keep telling myself.
TNT Posted:

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Oh you are so not alone,
I have been feeling like this for two weeks, I am anxious and very sensitive. I am completly overewhelmed with everything. I just keep breathing deeply and counting to t en
MsGibson07 Posted:

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Thanks I needed that!! Sorry to hear that about your mother and brother I wish you all the best.
nycerika318 Posted:

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I can totally relate. I haven't really been myself for the past few weeks. The littlest things going wrong set me off (and quite a few of them have)... Just hang in there! You are not alone.

BrideToBe24 Posted:

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I had mine yesterday. I'm in the middle of a move up to Rochester, FH has been there since July. We've seen each other on weekends but not the last 2 weeks.

I'm just done! Today is a better day but I'll be much happier once I'm up there.

Hang in there -- it'll get better! fm if you need to talk.
magbride Posted:

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I have one every so often. There's just SOOO much to do when planning a wedding. Unless you have mega bucks and have people doing everything for you, I can't see how it wouldn't get overwhelming.
Don't worry. Take deep breaths and just know that it will all get done.
diva7531 Posted:

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I had mine about 2 weeks ago. I did have a mini one earlier this week, but it was totally not related to the wedding. I coudln't be stressed about the wedding right now cause I just haven't done anything! I do have to get back on board. Everyone will tell you but you won't realize it till after you feel better. You WILL get it all done. Breathe, relax, enjoy this time. I have decided that I am done, if it gets done, it gets done, if it doesn't no one will miss it! I hope you feel better, drink a glass of wine, pop a xanax, take a night where you don't do one thing wedding related.
Mel329 Posted:

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Don't worry girls, everything will come together. I can promise you that. I stressed over everything and the day of the wedding everything came together.

Noogiefan Posted:

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FH & I are actually both going through this. We were getting mini-episodes up about a month ago when craft and party stores started to stock their shelves with autumn and halloween decorations.

Slowly we've been getting it more and more, and especially now when we have to pay all the vendors.

I want it to be over with yet I want to enjoy it all!

Torn between such extremes!
april503 Posted:

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i'm 3 days away from my wedding and yesterday i had an emotional meltdown too! and yelled at FH but then started crying and felt horrible...the past few weeks have been stressful but today was the last day i had to do anything so i'm dong my best for the next two days to do NOTHING but relax. But dont worry, it's an emotional time! i flipped cause everything i asked FH to do for the wedding i ended up having to take care of in the end. We talked it all out yesterday though on the phone (cause im at my parents getting ready for SUNDAY!) and he realized that i did do everything he was supposed and everything he had to take care of turned into a huge thing. He apologized and everything is good:)

tink79 Posted:

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I feel like I haven't been myself for a few weeks now. On top of getting ready for the wedding we're trying to get the house painted and get furniture and get the invitations out (a bit late!) It stressful and you're not alone!

B22 Posted:

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I had mine about 2 weeks ago.... I'm MUUUUUUUUCH better now.

it will pass, i PROMISE
ligirlz Posted:

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I have mine on and off but lately it has been bad since I have 2 weeks left and worrying about stuff at work when I am gone becasue I work with a idiot. I live out of state so it is even worse with FMIL trying to do things for us. It drives me nuts and I flip out on everyone. So don't worry I think we all have our moments.

PamR17 Posted:

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I've been feeling stressed and overwhelmed as well, especially this week.

Michi9506 Posted:

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I am that way too...theres way too many little things to worry about in the last few months...dont worry...youll remember everything and ur day will be perfect

MJDoc12 Posted:

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yup---totally normal. i had one of those sobbing uncontrollabe breakdowns a few weeks before the wedding....worrying: will it be worth it? will we have enough money to pay for it? why aren't some ppl who said no comign? is my day not important to them? will i look good in my dress? will the string trio be on time? will my photographer be great? will i be so nervous i can't speak? what if someone gets embarassingly drunk? how will i be able to stand at the altar without fainting? will i puke!? will i be a good wife?


trust me...it happens to the best of us!

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