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Engagement Party

Shmar Posted:

Engagement Party

How many of you are having an e-party?

Those of you who are in Nassau, where are you having it?

Finally, how long after you're engaged do you think it's appropriate to have an e party.
tbone66 Posted:

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I got engaged on 7/1/06 and my e-party is in 2 weeks at a restaurant called Mask in Glen Cove.

Shmar Posted:

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is it at night? my FH is hell bent on having the party at night so we can go out afterward. My family is not big on e parties so i wanted something small and quaint with just our immediate families so that they can meet each other.

he's driving me crazy with the place, and the time, god forbid the party be in the afternoon, and we're planning on Dec 3rd. he thinks it is too crazy because it will be around the holidays, and wants me to wait until after the holidays.....

why should we accomodate everyone. Like a few hours our of their day will ruin their holiday season......
tbone66 Posted:

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Ours is during the day from 1-5. It is difficult to get alot of restaurants to do the e-party at night if you want the whole restaurant to yourselves. If you do it at night you will prob have to guarantee a high number or go to a hall. We are having alot of people driving from out of town so we didn't want to do it at night.
I think the begining of December is fine. I also think that January is okay too. There is no set rule just what you feel comfortable with. Just make sure you send your invites out 6-8 weeks in advance.
missross Posted:

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I got engaged 7/2/06 and we already had our e-party (yeah, we're moving pretty swiftly with things, our wedding is 3/25/07). Our e-party was on 8/26/06. It was great! We live in Nassau but had the party in his parent's backyard in Suffolk. We rented a tent, tables and chairs and hired a chef and catering company to do all the preparations of the food, etc. We bought and cooked all our own food. They just prepared it and brought their own professional grill to cook the bbq items. However, I would advise that if you're going to get it catered, have them prepare and cook the food as well as that was the most exhausting part for both of us. My FH is wonderful at cooking and preparing for things, so he was very good about doing everything with me. However, it was alot of work for 2 people at the end of the day. We did save money on the catering though!! All I can say is have fun with it!!

waterspout4 Posted:

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We got engaged in 9/04 and had our eparty in 6/05. I had never heard of an eparty, since I was from upstate, so it took a while to understand the downstate thing.

We had it at Rye Town Park in Westchester county, right on the beach in a pavilion!!! (Even though we live in SUffolk) It was wonderful and a great price!!!!!
tricia3381 Posted:

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we were in engaged in december of 05 and had out e-party in june of 06. our wedding is august 07. we had a backayard bbq/beach party theme with catered food. we started the party at 2, and we partied until about midnight. thats the good thing about having it at a house, it can go on forever!! theres pics in my album. HTH!!

ILUVDC Posted:

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I got engaged 9/1/06, I'm not having mine till 3/24/07.....There is too much going on now, and I want to wait till after the holidays. My FSIL is also giving birth at the end of Jan. or beginning of Feb. I want to wait till after the baby is born. I live in suffolk and am having it in the newly renovated Blue Lagoon on a Sat Night. Good luck finding a place... there are so many good placed is Nassau.

angnick Posted:

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Posted by missross

I got engaged 7/2/06 and we already had our e-party (yeah, we're moving pretty swiftly with things, our wedding is 3/25/07). Our e-party was on 8/26/06. It was great! We live in Nassau but had the party in his parent's backyard in Suffolk. We rented a tent, tables and chairs and hired a chef and catering company to do all the preparations of the food, etc. We bought and cooked all our own food. They just prepared it and brought their own professional grill to cook the bbq items. However, I would advise that if you're going to get it catered, have them prepare and cook the food as well as that was the most exhausting part for both of us. My FH is wonderful at cooking and preparing for things, so he was very good about doing everything with me. However, it was alot of work for 2 people at the end of the day. We did save money on the catering though!! All I can say is have fun with it!!



ha that is my wedding date!
angnick Posted:

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we were engaged on July 4, 2005 and had the e party on Sept 10, 2005.

Angiebeeen Posted:

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I had an e party.....

Mine was in april and i got engaged in dec..

My e party was at verdis in westbury....My parents got married there and i just thought it was a nice idea to have our party there......

Hamptonsbride06 Posted:

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We got engaged August 22 in San Diego, we came home September 3, and had the e party on Sept 6...we sent out invites while we were still in san diego, it was thrown together really quickly because fh was scheduled to have surgery on the 8th, and was out of comission for 12 weeks after. We had it on the beach in hampton bays, in my grandmothers backyard.

OrangeGrl Posted:

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We got engaged on July 14, 2006 but we aren't going to have an engagement party because we are trying to save money for a place to live and for the wedding. I wish we had the money for one, it would have been fun... but the wedding is going to be a blast!!
thelastresort Posted:

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I had an e-party in August and I was engaged in December. We just had it at my house. It was really nice, if I do say so myself!

Mrs.CM Posted:

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We got engaged 8/28/05 and had our e-party 10/22/05 at Mandolino Grill. We planned it pretty quickly because FHs brother was going to Sweden for practically all of November and my parents personally did not want to have it in the wintery months. I don't think there is a set time of when you have to have it by. We had ours from 1-5 since we had the entire restaurant and we ended up meeting friends to go out later on. We had a blast! If people want to go out after the party, you can just invite them back to the house and go out later on!

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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We got engaged in June of '05 and had our 100 person night time e party in September of '05

giggles62 Posted:

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We were engaged 04/29/06 and had our e-party 07/09/06. We had an afternoon party as well in Brooklyn.

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