I don't have a list but I can sort of help you with a few things....I am in the middle of planning mine. FM me any questions.
By the way...you have FM
Sweetness
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Re: Engagement Party checklist..
here's one
1-guest list 2-favors-yes or no 3-DJ 4-Place 5-Invites 6-Seating-open or assigned 7-Alcohol-open bar, tab etc 8-cake(we had brownie sundaes-fh fav) 9-Do first dance-yes/no(we didn't do) 10-parent speeches?(welcome speech) 11-Registry(yes so you don't get gifts you don't want, no cause people just might give you $$$$) Keep in mind-traditionally you aren't suppose to expect gifts for engagement parties, but everyone at mine gave a gift from the registry or $$$$$