engagement party vent

Oh boy. This sounds like something my FMIL would impose on me the day of the wedding 'you think you can have a limo pick up so & so cause they don't have a way to get there?'

I really feel that if people want to come they should have their means of getting there. Maybe your in-laws should pick them up if they insist on their being there.

I honestly wouldn't feel obligated to pick anyone up.. especially if it's out of my way. But if it's on the way I don't see much of a big deal unless like you say you don't feel comfortable about it.

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

Oh boy. This sounds like something my FMIL would impose on me the day of the wedding 'you think you can have a limo pick up so & so cause they don't have a way to get there?'

I really feel that if people want to come they should have their means of getting there. Maybe your in-laws should pick them up if they insist on their being there.

I honestly wouldn't feel obligated to pick anyone up.. especially if it's out of my way. But if it's on the way I don't see much of a big deal unless like you say you don't feel comfortable about it.

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The biggest issue is that most people are carpooling b/c they think I live in another state (Shirley), so most wont even have room in their car. I think they should take the train or the bus. I must sound like such a witch. : )

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Posted by traci506

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

Oh boy. This sounds like something my FMIL would impose on me the day of the wedding 'you think you can have a limo pick up so & so cause they don't have a way to get there?'

I really feel that if people want to come they should have their means of getting there. Maybe your in-laws should pick them up if they insist on their being there.

I honestly wouldn't feel obligated to pick anyone up.. especially if it's out of my way. But if it's on the way I don't see much of a big deal unless like you say you don't feel comfortable about it.

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The biggest issue is that most people are carpooling b/c they think I live in another state (Shirley), so most wont even have room in their car. I think they should take the train or the bus. I must sound like such a witch. : )

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No you don't sound like a witch
I mean if people can't get there then they can't come. You shouldn't have to be responsible for how everyone is getting there. I'm sure you got tons to take care of before hand and why should you be put out because they can't take a taxi or find someone else.

My aunt lives out in Shirley so I know the trip But I mean it's not like you're in another state! I think it takes me an hour to get to Shirely without traffic from where I live and I live near Elmont.

OMG I soooo feel for you. My e-party is this week and and my FMIL is causing headaches too. She doesnt drive and said she had a ride there so I didnt have to worry about it. this was a month ago now 3 days b4 the event she said she actually wasnt able to get a ride so who has to deal with this ME of course AHHHHHHHH! Ne way sorry venting but in your case cant you say that no one has room tin their car to pick them up