Eparty VENT
So the eparty is just our immediate families (who have not met yet BTW) and our wedding party. We extended the invite to my stepfathers cousin becuase they have always been close like brothers. Well the cousin's wife opened her mouth to her sister in law who did not get an invite because she is not immediate family nor is she close to my stepfather the way her brother is.
So the cousin's wife calls my mother and says that she accidently slipped and opened her mouth yadda yadda so my mom says that the party is for immed family only and that is why her SIL wasnt invited.
Two weeks go by and now my stepfather gets a call at work yesterday from his cousin saying that he doesnt know what to do cause he is in the middle of this whole thing since his sister wasnt invited. My stepfathers says the same thing that this is who I chose to invite and why.
So now I am furious and text the cousins wife saying that this party is being thrown by my fiance and I so please adress me in the future, not my parents. I explain the whole thing AGAIN about how its for immediate family and that they were invited bc they have been in our lives being close to my stepdad.
Well I get an email at 1130 last night from my stepdads cousin telling me that he respects my decision and knows it is hard to plan and make decisions for parties and he hopes that I respect his decision to no longer attend the party. He says that he struggles with the situation and hopes that at my wedding his whol family can be together to help me celebrate and dance. Then goes on to say that he didnt know that I planned the party and had he known he wouldnt have gone to my parents but he does not appreciate being reprimanded and requests that I never speak to him or his wife like that again in that manner.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?! Who are you to second guess or question my guestlist for anything. Now his poor sister probably thinks that I didnt intend to invite her to my wedding which I DO but not the intimate engagement party. I went out of my way to make him and his wife feel like our immediate family and this is what I get?
I am glad they arent coming and if I had it my way I wouldnt even invite them to the wedding anymore but I know my parents wont like that.
Am I crazy here or is this rediculious?? I feel like I am in High School...this is so stupid.
So the cousin's wife calls my mother and says that she accidently slipped and opened her mouth yadda yadda so my mom says that the party is for immed family only and that is why her SIL wasnt invited.
Two weeks go by and now my stepfather gets a call at work yesterday from his cousin saying that he doesnt know what to do cause he is in the middle of this whole thing since his sister wasnt invited. My stepfathers says the same thing that this is who I chose to invite and why.
So now I am furious and text the cousins wife saying that this party is being thrown by my fiance and I so please adress me in the future, not my parents. I explain the whole thing AGAIN about how its for immediate family and that they were invited bc they have been in our lives being close to my stepdad.
Well I get an email at 1130 last night from my stepdads cousin telling me that he respects my decision and knows it is hard to plan and make decisions for parties and he hopes that I respect his decision to no longer attend the party. He says that he struggles with the situation and hopes that at my wedding his whol family can be together to help me celebrate and dance. Then goes on to say that he didnt know that I planned the party and had he known he wouldnt have gone to my parents but he does not appreciate being reprimanded and requests that I never speak to him or his wife like that again in that manner.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?! Who are you to second guess or question my guestlist for anything. Now his poor sister probably thinks that I didnt intend to invite her to my wedding which I DO but not the intimate engagement party. I went out of my way to make him and his wife feel like our immediate family and this is what I get?
I am glad they arent coming and if I had it my way I wouldnt even invite them to the wedding anymore but I know my parents wont like that.
Am I crazy here or is this rediculious?? I feel like I am in High School...this is so stupid.
