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JAAMS Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:00 AM

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My mom brought up something this morning that I hadn't thought of...

We're only inviting close family and close friends with their children. One of the GM's has a girlfriend who has a 3 year old. We should probably add her to the list right?

ETA: add the daughter, not the gf she will be invited of course lol

halfbaked Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:01 AM

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I'd add them to the list. He is a GM after all.

StaceyWill Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:18 AM

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Posted by jilliibabii

I'd add them to the list. He is a GM after all.

ITA

AdriandSteve Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:46 AM

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Posted by jilliibabii

I'd add them to the list. He is a GM after all.

ita

BriansWifey Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:47 AM

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Posted by jilliibabii

I'd add them to the list. He is a GM after all.

ita

yeah me too.....

AwaitingAugust Posted: Mar 04, 2010 09:49 AM

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i probably would not invite the GM's girlfriends' child ...

jennybee Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:32 AM

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The GM and girlfriend may not even want to bring her child. Is there any way to find out graciously?

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:33 AM

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Posted by jilliibabii

I'd add them to the list. He is a GM after all.

I agree as well.

allornil Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:35 AM

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I dunno. it's not like she's in the wedding really. You;re not obligated to invite her. I'd ask the groomsman if it was important.

Golden Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:36 AM

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I would add them especially since he's a GM

brittndave Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:50 AM

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i wouldn't add her. if it was his child WITH her then i would invite her

saralee1978 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:56 AM

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I wouldn't invite the gf's child.

One of my bridesmaids will have 3 children by the time of the wedding, and even though she is part of the wedding party, her 3 children are not being invited. I think my friend will prefer this as she will now be able to dance and have fun instead of being a mom all night long.

Lil OC Posted: Mar 04, 2010 10:59 AM

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Is it HIS child with her? Are the engaged? If it's not his child, I dont think you are obligated to invite the kid.

runnerbride1023 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 12:27 PM

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I dont think you need to invite the daughter of a GM's girlfriend...

MikesBride2B Posted: Mar 04, 2010 12:28 PM

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Edited because I'm not sure I agree with my initial assessment. Lemme get back to you lol

20mrsc10 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 12:28 PM

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i wouldn't

ourwedding9510 Posted: Mar 04, 2010 12:31 PM

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Well if the girlfriend and groomsman are invited and the groomsman is important to you guys, then I would say, Yes to inviting the 3 year old. If they were married, wouldn't you invite the wife with her child?