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Etiquette Question - Invites

StaceYums81 Posted:

Etiquette Question - Invites

I have some people that I want to invite that I don't know their husbands names - is it inappropriate to ask them? I have no idea what I'm doing here! lol

rocketsummer17 Posted:

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Just ask them in passing...They wont even realize you asked...Or when you are talking with them about their husbands keep an ear open for his name!!

christine2010 Posted:

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i put together a list of everyone i wanted to invite & then FH did the same. we then looked them other & then gave our parents the lists to look over. by time we get them back from our parents any names we weren't sure of were completely filled in.

if its friends names you are unsure of, what i did was e-mail a friend who got married last year who had the same people at her wedding. i asked her for everyones proper name spelling (instead of nicknames) & addresses.

maybe you can do the same thing
Jna2010 Posted:

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i dont think theres a problem with doing that at all, unless of course if your really close with the person and you should know it then it may be a little wierd but its better to find out then to address the envelope as '& guest' or something

SummerBride10 Posted:

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Posted by rocketsummer17

Just ask them in passing...They wont even realize you asked...Or when you are talking with them about their husbands keep an ear open for his name!!



I agree!! Or ask someone that knows them!
lori7570 Posted:

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Posted by christine2010

i put together a list of everyone i wanted to invite & then FH did the same. we then looked them other & then gave our parents the lists to look over. by time we get them back from our parents any names we weren't sure of were completely filled in.

if its friends names you are unsure of, what i did was e-mail a friend who got married last year who had the same people at her wedding. i asked her for everyones proper name spelling (instead of nicknames) & addresses.

maybe you can do the same thing



That's a good idea...

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