Ever been soo....

Ever been so pissed off at your FH that you wanted to call off the wedding????

My stupid fh decided to txt some members of the bridal party who have been slacking havent gotten measured havent rsvped etc. I dont know if it was mistake or the *** just didnt know what he was doing at the time. But he managed to send out a nasty txt to one of the gm's i picked who is like my freaking brother. Tells him if he doesnt get an rsvp he's out of the wedding party! What the F!!!!!!!

I cant tell you how freaking humiliated I am and how sorry i am, and how angry i am at FH. I only found out bc my mom called me bc my sisters called her. IDK what the hell FH was thinking or wha tthat @$$ wrote!! So now that i'm trying to apologize on behalf of this moron the gm wont answer is phone, i even sent a text. I dont know what to do! I had fh call and text, im soo humiliated.

Why would he have done that in the first place!! What is wrong with him!!!! I dont know if i want to be married to someone who doesnt think before he acts or at least check his damn text msg recipients! Im soo furious and hurt and humilated, that practically a member of my family, someone who is like my brother, was so insulted and hurt by this bc fh is a moron! I cant, im horrified!

thre have been times when i have been so mad at FH - especially in the last month or so because the wedding is getting so close and FH is way stressed our getting our new apt. ready. however, i never got to the point where i don't want to be with him.
Why not talk to him and see what he says?

I think you need to take a step back and assess the situation. Have I ever been so aggravated with FH that I wanted to scream? YES! Have I ever second thought my decision to marry him? NO! I think if you are truly considering calling off the marriage, you NEED to talk to him.

However, I also think you need to look at this from his point. Your FH is excited to marry you and anyone who make the process more stressful (like the bms who haven't rsvp'd) is pissssing him off right now! He acted on impulse because it's something that means a lot to him!! Yes he should have consulted you before he texted someone so close to you, but he did try to call him to apologize afterwards and the guy didn't pick up.

I know I would be upset in this situation too but if the bm is like a brother to you then he should accept your FH's apology and understand all of the stress that your FH is under right now. JMO

I hope everything works out

I've never wanted to call of the wedding.

That being said I can understand why your so upset, I would be realy embarassed.
However, it also sounds like your FH was truly just trying to help you. He probably didn't realize what he was doing in a way. Guys don't think like us. Talk to him though and see what happens.

I am thanking god right now. The GM got back to me and understood it was a mistake and accepted our apologies.

Apparently what happened was that fh was telling 2 of the groomsmen to either s**t or get off the pot, the ones that have been slacking, when sending the message, he accidently clicked this gm's name and when he went to unclick it his phone glitched and didnt take that particular gm off the recipient list and it sent. But he called us back accepted our apologies and we're all good.

Im still furious at FH but im sure i'll calm down eventually. Im still in shock over this whole thing. FH needs to calm the eff down when it comes to planning and ease up off the other gms and the guests....he's turning into a groomzilla, I understand our final count is due in 2 weeks but there was no need for that drama when the rsvp date isnt until the 30th!! Even if it was sent in error, he shouldve at least called the 2 slackers and this drama couldve been avoided. Thank you ladies for helping me out, i was absolutely beside myself.