Ever Feel ....

Like no ones gives a crap about your wedding but you? Sorry if I am depressing anyone and I dont mean to vent and this isnt a ploy for pitty, it is truly how I feel today.


I feel like The Little Red Hed in that children's story....

Who will help me plan the wedding?

'Not I said the bridesmaids'


But yet in the end everyone will want to join in the celebration and dance the night away after all my hard work ....Alone!

SMH.....

I know exactly how you are feeling, and it's just a quick phase that you'll snap out of soon...

It can be really upsetting when no one else is around to help, or seems to care to help... but that's why you have all of us!!! We are here to help, cheer, co-misserate, and support you through this process! WE understand, even if some of the other people in your life don't seem to.

Yours and your FH's day is so important to you, it only makes sense that you care more than anyone else. Even my FH doesn't seem to care all that much about the planning. But we -- the brides -- we are the ones who painstakingly try to make sure the day will be smooth, fun, and a dream come true. And it will!!!

You can vent any time you want. As we all know, we can't change those around us, but sometimes backing off and going here for some support and encouragement is just the break everyone else in your life needs from your wedding furvor to be supportive again about the 'really important' things, as everything falls into place.

BIG HUGS!!!!

trust me girl ive been there...

soo many times..and now with my sister pregnant,thats all any one can talk bout it

bottom line i had to let it go..im too happy to let anything bother me..i know everyone around me is happy..they r just tired of hearing bout the wedding lol

feel better..dont worry we r all here for u

To be honest, Yes, I have felt this way before. I have heard, 'I'll help you out with anything just let me know', then when it comes down to it, the help is not there. But ofcourse, when it comes to the B-Party, everyone wants to make sure they are included and all have ideas and strong opinions on where to go and what to do. I love that FH and I are planning everything together, and we are having fun, but it is interested to see who offers help and who doesn't. Bottom line don't let it bother you to much, look at this as something that you and your Fh can do together and the less you depend on people the better, in my opinion anyway

Sandra.. you are one of the sweetest most positive people Ive ever come across.

As for future Mrs. GB! Yes, I have had many moments where I feel that way-- and it has caused the raging beast inside me to attack family and loved ones, which I later regretted, but they are family and so they forgive me.. not to mention it did light a fire under their bums to get more involved in helping out! Sometimes you just need to ask.,. even though it ***** and it would be better if they did it without you HAVING to ask.
Sometimes they still dont and then that makes you wannna

Thats when you can come on here and vent. Or vent to your FH> Unless ofcourse he is the problem. I know I have accused mine of not helping/being involved/caring on many an occasion =)

We are all here for you. Vent away!

Thanks Ladies .... I just got back from lunch and the salty fries I just engulfed coupled with your encouraging words made me feel better!!!!!!!


I guess b/c it is almost 4 months out I feel like what gives!