Ever feel...

Like you're the most sincere person in a certain situation, that you have more class, more composure, and yet you're the one being told you're out of control?

I really believe I should start treating my family like dirt, maybe then I'll get what I want, since it seems to work for my sister.

Yea, you guessed it...still no phone call. And what's worse is I talked to my godmother, and she told me she's called my mom numerous times this week and hasn't heard from her, but somehow my friend is. I had no choice but to tell my godmother what had happened, and I tried, really really really hard not to involve another family member.

I'm not bending at this point. I sent an email, made my feelings clear and placed the ball in there court. They wanna be jerks? that's 3 less people at my wedding I have to pay for.



they have no idea how much they hurt me, hurt me enough to bash them on the internet. this has gone way to far.

Those invitations need to get here so I can continue planning. I have NOTHING to do right now and all the free time thinking is making me sick.

You are better off with them ignoring you...honestly, right now my ILs are giving us the silent treatment...its pure bliss. No drama, no stress...I am totally ignoring their existence and our lives are much less dramatic because of it.

Just move on, as soon as they realize you're not gonna cave they'll take a new route. Then you can react.

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Posted by brittndave

i think you're dwelling on it too much. if you're that upset about it and can't do anything else until you talk to them, then call them and move on

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i tried. i pick up the phone, and that knot comes in my throat and my eyes well up. You would think I'd have calmed my nerves down to a point to call and at least ask what's the deal with full confidence and composer, but I can't.

im sorry they are still putting you through this. but i think they need to have the silent treatment. there is no reason why your family should be making you feel like this. i would be doing the same thing and leave them off the list. they wanna play that game, play it right back. it just sucks that is your family and they are behaving like 12 year olds!

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Posted by bluj786

im sorry they are still putting you through this. but i think they need to have the silent treatment. there is no reason why your family should be making you feel like this. i would be doing the same thing and leave them off the list. they wanna play that game, play it right back. it just sucks that is your family and they are behaving like 12 year olds!

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you know what's sad? at least I think about calling, at least I think about sucking it up and letting yet another incident be 'my fault' just to get through the wedding, and making another promise to myself that im done being the scapegoat, i have my own family to worry about now.

on the bright side, i'm not eating crazy (basic meals, nothing heavy), and i lost weight from the stress. heh.