Everyones got an opinion.........

Ever since I got engaged I find that everyone that shouldnt have an opinion on what I do with my wedding does. Am I the only one this is happening to?

My MOH's in-your-business MIL has the nerve to be mad at me because I asked my MOH to be in the BP but not her husband. And says my MOH should have decilned due to the fact I didnt ask both of them.Saying its just wrong. Mind you her husband and my FH are not even friends. This comes right after she asks if shes getting invited to the wedding. Hellooooo????
&
FH & My mom are mad cause the girls in the BP arent going to all have updo's.. (some girls dont even have enough hair to put up!!)
Whats wrong with these people?

---

Posted by missK

Ever since I got engaged I find that everyone that shouldnt have an opinion on what I do with my wedding does. Am I the only one this is happening to?

---

Have you heard this saying?

'Opinions are like a$$holes - everyone has one, and everyone thinks everybody elses stinks.'

In the course of my planning, I have gotten sooooo many opinions and so much unsolicited advice ... it has driven me crazy at times!

you're not alone.
everyone and their next door neighbor has an opinion on my wedding... but the people who's opinions i need refuse to help!

i don't know what it is about weddings that makes people think they have the right to get mad at everyone.

---

Posted by Kimbalina

YUP!!! and they feel they HAVE to give it to you. I would tell MOH MIL to GTH! (go to Hellllloo)

---

i agree!! its your wedding not theirs! they need to get over it

---

Posted by Kimbalina

YUP!!! and they feel they HAVE to give it to you. I would tell MOH MIL to GTH! (go to Hellllloo)

---

My MOH was afraid to tell me thinking I would be hurt.. I just laughed that this woman is nuts. When and if I see her I will tell her to go to Hellloooo.

People are annoying. You have to take it with a grain of salt. Especially when it's not even someone whose involved with or invited to your wedding.


Don't even worry about her. It's always the ppl who shouldn't have an opinion that have the strongest opinions!

---

Posted by Espo22

if people say things i dont like i just dont pay attention, its like nope sorry not gonna do it...you either had your time or you will have your time. But then again i havent had anyone tell my crazy things like that, really why is it someone elses business if you didnt ask MOH's husband, not even the MOH is complaining,makes no sense...just tell them next time you really don't care to hear about nonsense problems, and when they have something actually important to say then maybe you'll listen

---

Shes old school Italian so it was what she did with her Compare and because its excluding her son, its wrong. I decided one day that you know what, This is my wedding and I may ruffle some peoples feathers but too bad. Its my way or the Highway... (and I am the least difficult person)-- just dont ask FH to confim that

---

Posted by missK

---

Posted by Espo22

if people say things i dont like i just dont pay attention, its like nope sorry not gonna do it...you either had your time or you will have your time. But then again i havent had anyone tell my crazy things like that, really why is it someone elses business if you didnt ask MOH's husband, not even the MOH is complaining,makes no sense...just tell them next time you really don't care to hear about nonsense problems, and when they have something actually important to say then maybe you'll listen

---

Shes old school Italian so it was what she did with her Compare and because its excluding her son, its wrong. I decided one day that you know what, This is my wedding and I may ruffle some peoples feathers but too bad. Its my way or the Highway... (and I am the least difficult person)-- just dont ask FH to confim that

---

well maybe be a little more difficult, she'll keep doing it as long as she knows she can get away with it

---

Posted by jft5

it's funny b/c i just had the same vent to my fiance today - EVERYONE has an opinion (which is fine) but the part that annoys me the most is that they think they have a right to tell me how to spend my money and to plan my wedding!

---

Dont I know it. ......I should carry around a purse just for suggestions and donations. If you have an opinion or suggestion you must make a donation to the 'wedding' fund and I will then consider it. Otherwise Beat it.. Of course that doesnt apply to the girls of LIW.