evil SIL
Ever feel like people take advantage of your goodness & feed you a crock of sh%*? Meanwhile if you were to give them a dose of their own medicine,you'd be known as a be-och.
FSIL (FH's brothers wife) has been nothing but a sh%* stir-er since day one. I have tried to give her ever chance to be a friend/family and I refused to believe everyone when they would say she was 'evil'. They live in Florida and FBIL is coming...has told us numerous times throughout the year that he is spending rather 'WASTING' his vacation time on our wedding(turns out he'll be here only 3 days...oh,your whoooole vacation) plus they really have to 'SAVE' to make the trip. Ummm excuse me,you're coming from freakin Ft.Lauderdale $100 RT Spirit Airlines not Tahiti!!
Sooo FSIL (who is the trailor-trash,jealous type) has made every excuse why she cannot come.We offered to pay,FFIL has offered to pay...FI sister has cried her eyes out because she is so embaressed for the family.PPL are coming from Europe,California,Canada,Chicago for the wedding & this one is too busy.
BTW her first excuse was she'll 'probebly have to work' ..hello??? Saturday night? Plus...SHE HAS NO JOB!!
So this morning she called me ( I swore I'd give her til 9/9/05 to come through) to say it doesn't look like she's gonna find a job(hasn't had one in 10 yrs) but anyway she can't come B E C A U S E ..... Benji is sick & she needs to take care of him![]()
The wedding is 23 days away & Benji is THE CAT !!!
This women is dead for me. I feel bad for FI because he has been soooo good to them,I'm actually mad for him. He has given them $$,bought them a car,showered them with gifts,paid off their loans,made X amount of trips a year to see them( me in tow) we *Bleep*'in bought out Lord n Taylor and BabyGap last year when they had a baby and this is Thank You? If I made such excuses I'd be looked at as a be-otch.
I'm sooooo sorry for the long post but I'm writing this in tears but its like therapy,I feel better already.
FSIL (FH's brothers wife) has been nothing but a sh%* stir-er since day one. I have tried to give her ever chance to be a friend/family and I refused to believe everyone when they would say she was 'evil'. They live in Florida and FBIL is coming...has told us numerous times throughout the year that he is spending rather 'WASTING' his vacation time on our wedding(turns out he'll be here only 3 days...oh,your whoooole vacation) plus they really have to 'SAVE' to make the trip. Ummm excuse me,you're coming from freakin Ft.Lauderdale $100 RT Spirit Airlines not Tahiti!!
Sooo FSIL (who is the trailor-trash,jealous type) has made every excuse why she cannot come.We offered to pay,FFIL has offered to pay...FI sister has cried her eyes out because she is so embaressed for the family.PPL are coming from Europe,California,Canada,Chicago for the wedding & this one is too busy.
BTW her first excuse was she'll 'probebly have to work' ..hello??? Saturday night? Plus...SHE HAS NO JOB!!
So this morning she called me ( I swore I'd give her til 9/9/05 to come through) to say it doesn't look like she's gonna find a job(hasn't had one in 10 yrs) but anyway she can't come B E C A U S E ..... Benji is sick & she needs to take care of him
The wedding is 23 days away & Benji is THE CAT !!!
This women is dead for me. I feel bad for FI because he has been soooo good to them,I'm actually mad for him. He has given them $$,bought them a car,showered them with gifts,paid off their loans,made X amount of trips a year to see them( me in tow) we *Bleep*'in bought out Lord n Taylor and BabyGap last year when they had a baby and this is Thank You? If I made such excuses I'd be looked at as a be-otch.
I'm sooooo sorry for the long post but I'm writing this in tears but its like therapy,I feel better already.
