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We often talk about his ex because he has two kids with her. Other relationships -- I ask out of curiousity but dont want too much detail. On the other end, FH doesnt want to know anything about my past relationships.
I think I am at that point where I just really don't care. Yea, I was curious in the beginning but not anymore.
not really i just tease him about one of his though
We hardly talk about our ex's anymore. We were both engaged at one point in our lives way before we met so we sometimes talk about them. They were both crazzzzzy people lol. But not so much anymore, it's a painful thing for me to talk about especially because my ex was the last guy I was seriously involved with before Fh and he was abusive to me. It took awhile for me to build my trust for fh up and him the same for me but as you can see, it worked out lol.
Posted by LouMar2010
i saw on of his exes at a game (her current bf plays on the same team) and i asked him about her. he said she was a rebound gf and there really wasnt much of a relationship, but now im curious about the girl before her, the one who caused the rebound...
is it wrong to ask, part of me wants to know and part of me has no desire to know, i just dont know which one is stronger...
we used to but I feel since were getting married there isn't any reason to discuss 'it' anymore LOL
We talk about ex's. It hard not too when my ex lives only a few blocks from me and we see him around the neighborhood alot. Even if FH sees him without me he will say ' I saw stupid before' (my little pet name for my ex)
ummmm we talked about them in the begining not anymore
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Posted by LouMar2010
i saw on of his exes at a game (her current bf plays on the same team) and i asked him about her. he said she was a rebound gf and there really wasnt much of a relationship, but now im curious about the girl before her, the one who caused the rebound...
is it wrong to ask, part of me wants to know and part of me has no desire to know, i just dont know which one is stronger...
hmmm kind of a tough one. i dont think its wrong of u to ask because if it was me, i might. it would drive me crazy if i didn't. tell him in all honesty that u dont wanna make him upset by asking him about her but that you are just curious.
Posted by LouMar2010
Posted by RedsBride
Posted by LouMar2010
i saw on of his exes at a game (her current bf plays on the same team) and i asked him about her. he said she was a rebound gf and there really wasnt much of a relationship, but now im curious about the girl before her, the one who caused the rebound...
is it wrong to ask, part of me wants to know and part of me has no desire to know, i just dont know which one is stronger...
hmmm kind of a tough one. i dont think its wrong of u to ask because if it was me, i might. it would drive me crazy if i didn't. tell him in all honesty that u dont wanna make him upset by asking him about her but that you are just curious.
yeaa i feel like its gonna drive me crazy if i dont know, but i dont know if ill be upset with hearing it.
i never had a real serious relationship before FH. just really dated but nothing major. and fh had a few serious relationship before me. i guess it just kills me to think that he used the love word in other relationships,even tho i know how ridiculous and crazy that is because its his past and has nothing to do with me.
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Posted by LouMar2010
Posted by RedsBride
Posted by LouMar2010
i saw on of his exes at a game (her current bf plays on the same team) and i asked him about her. he said she was a rebound gf and there really wasnt much of a relationship, but now im curious about the girl before her, the one who caused the rebound...
is it wrong to ask, part of me wants to know and part of me has no desire to know, i just dont know which one is stronger...
hmmm kind of a tough one. i dont think its wrong of u to ask because if it was me, i might. it would drive me crazy if i didn't. tell him in all honesty that u dont wanna make him upset by asking him about her but that you are just curious.
yeaa i feel like its gonna drive me crazy if i dont know, but i dont know if ill be upset with hearing it.
i never had a real serious relationship before FH. just really dated but nothing major. and fh had a few serious relationship before me. i guess it just kills me to think that he used the love word in other relationships,even tho i know how ridiculous and crazy that is because its his past and has nothing to do with me.
awww don't worry, i know what u mean. especially since FH had proposed to someone years before me...it killed me to know that he loved someone that much before me. but the same happened to me lol. but i know how you feel. just discuss it with him. tell him you dont wanna argue about it, you just wanna share your feelings and hear what he has to say about his ex. and hopefully you'll respect what each other has to say. dont make a big deal of it and he wont. i notice that about men lol.
Posted by LouMar2010
Posted by RedsBride
Posted by LouMar2010
Posted by RedsBride
Posted by LouMar2010
i saw on of his exes at a game (her current bf plays on the same team) and i asked him about her. he said she was a rebound gf and there really wasnt much of a relationship, but now im curious about the girl before her, the one who caused the rebound...
is it wrong to ask, part of me wants to know and part of me has no desire to know, i just dont know which one is stronger...
hmmm kind of a tough one. i dont think its wrong of u to ask because if it was me, i might. it would drive me crazy if i didn't. tell him in all honesty that u dont wanna make him upset by asking him about her but that you are just curious.
yeaa i feel like its gonna drive me crazy if i dont know, but i dont know if ill be upset with hearing it.
i never had a real serious relationship before FH. just really dated but nothing major. and fh had a few serious relationship before me. i guess it just kills me to think that he used the love word in other relationships,even tho i know how ridiculous and crazy that is because its his past and has nothing to do with me.
awww don't worry, i know what u mean. especially since FH had proposed to someone years before me...it killed me to know that he loved someone that much before me. but the same happened to me lol. but i know how you feel. just discuss it with him. tell him you dont wanna argue about it, you just wanna share your feelings and hear what he has to say about his ex. and hopefully you'll respect what each other has to say. dont make a big deal of it and he wont. i notice that about men lol.
thats very true, if i dont make a big deal he won't. lol thanks for your help!
We talk about exes, they are what shaped us. We learned from our previous mistakes (exes). I know all of his exes and have met them. We were friends for years prior to dating, so I was around while he dated a few of them.
we used to not any more waste of time and air!
We honestly never really talk about our ex's maybe when we tease eachother but never really
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