ex-boyfriends

suzzi7404 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:14 PM

ex-boyfriends

Here's a good one for ya ladies, now that you're getting married is there an ex that you sometimes think about?

JenMike331 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:25 PM

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hmmmmmm well i dont think about them in the way that i miss them! but i do think i wonder where they all are.....married....kids.....homeless....lololol

PegaLega Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:26 PM

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Posted by JenMike331

hmmmmmm well i dont think about them in the way that i miss them! but i do think i wonder where they all are.....married....kids.....homeless....lololol

I agree!

suzzi7404 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:28 PM

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Oh yeah, definatly not in a missing them way. If that were the case maybe the marriage should be reconsidered!!!

JenMike331 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:29 PM

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Posted by suzzi7404

Oh yeah, definatly not in a missing them way. If that were the case maybe the marriage should be reconsidered!!!

definitely! that would be a lil weird

suzzi7404 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:30 PM

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that would be alot weird!

billandme Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:39 PM

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I am always curious what they are up too. I know one of them (I dated him for four years) now has two kids and is divorced........the other married a stripper........and the other one......hmmmmm, haven't heard too much about him........

bettybcafe Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:47 PM

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Posted by JenMike331

hmmmmmm well i dont think about them in the way that i miss them! but i do think i wonder where they all are.....married....kids.....homeless....lololol

Well put. I dont miss any of them but I do sometimes wonder what they are up to and if they are thinking about me lol

JenMike331 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:52 PM

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Posted by bettybcafe

Posted by JenMike331

hmmmmmm well i dont think about them in the way that i miss them! but i do think i wonder where they all are.....married....kids.....homeless....lololol

Well put. I dont miss any of them but I do sometimes wonder what they are up to and if they are thinking about me lol

oooo thats a good one!

JIFFY Posted: Oct 20, 2006 10:00 PM

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I don't think about him in that way. Me and my high school sweetheart are still friends after 20 years! ( I graduated when I was 10 )

He called me to congratulate me on my engagement and then when he got engaged I called him and did the same. They are getting married a month after me!

aprlflwr Posted: Oct 20, 2006 10:23 PM

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Yes. I use to think about him all the time before I got engaged because if it were not for my parents, we probably would not have broken up.

Now I just wonder if he knows that I am engaged.

AllJoy Posted: Oct 20, 2006 10:57 PM

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He sometimes comes a cross my mind. It would've never worked anyway...It was his loss. I'd love to rub it in his face that I'm so happy....

Snowflake08 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 11:07 PM

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totally normal for people to cross your mind - they were a part of your life and you have memories - that doesnt take anything away from your current relationship

StarryEyedBride Posted: Oct 20, 2006 11:16 PM

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I only wonder what they would think if they knew I was getting married.... LOL they probably wouldn't believe it!

jax1023 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 11:53 PM

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I remained good friends with one of my Exs for HS. Recently he joined the Navy and got married. I wonder whats up with him occasionally.

rojerono Posted: Oct 21, 2006 06:42 AM

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I sometimes think about them all. Never in the capacity of ... 'If ONLY I was still with...' More like 'I wonder what ever happened to ...'

I mean... a boyfriend is someone that you generally spent a lot of time with... someone you cared about and possibly felt like you loved at the time. I think it would be a little unnatural to completely forget their existance.

But I never long for, pine for or wish i were with anyone. They are EX boyfriends for a reason! I think of them in the same way that I think of an old high school or college pal that I haven't seen in a long time... no desire to look them up and have coffee.. but a curiousity about where they are in their life! And I wish none of them ill... although I hope at least one got the mental help he so DESPERATELY needed.

Cheryl826 Posted: Oct 21, 2006 04:19 PM

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No, but a couple of ex-boyfriends who I haven't spoken to in a long time contacted me right after I got engaged. One of my friends said that the same thing happened to her.

afrodyt2000 Posted: Oct 21, 2006 04:25 PM

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LOL I googled one like in the summer and found out he was arrested for murder. Considering he went to Brooklyn Tech with me, went to RIT and got his bachelors and I think Masters in some kind of computer field, it was really weird seeing that. I don't think he's guilty but of course I wonder if he's ok and if his name has been cleared.

Soon2bMrsI Posted: Oct 21, 2006 05:54 PM

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yup all the time....actually 2 of them!!!

SN2BMRSBURTE Posted: Oct 21, 2006 06:06 PM

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I sometimes think about my ex when my FH does something nice for me, because my FH always takes care of me when I am sick w/migraines, helps clean, makes lunch for us every morning before work, he just always does nice, caring things for me...and my ex did not ever take care of me if I was sick..he would actually tell me to stay home so HE wouldn't get sick, not to mention the fact that after we broke up I found out that he cheated on me alot. So, I think of how LUCKY I am that I am NOT with him because I know we would have ended up divorced if we had gotten married. I'm so glad I met my FH