I drag my FH to some of the major appts but other than that, I am doing a lot of the planning myself. Honestly, if he were involved, we would never get anything done. Some of my friends think it is wierd that I picked out the invites w/out showing him. How much is your FH helping?
jteach711
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Posted by drpepper318
I did pretty much everything. He came with me to some vendors though, and if I asked him for an idea or to do something specific, he'd usually take care of it. But for the most part, I made the major decisions and did the bulk of the work. That was okay with me because I enjoyed the planning.
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menc
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I pretty much do everything and just consult with him on it, he can't be bothered going to florists, lol. But, he has done some of the registry with me and came to all phot/video appt's. So, I guess he is involved liek 40%
bluegreen08
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I've run everything by him and he had a say in the bigger vendors (hall, band, etc) -- i asked for his opinions on flowers, BM dresses and he generally just said whatever I wanted was fine.
RKellner
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He's paying for it! No he works and I stay at home with our daughter.. SO I do all the research, make the appts. and come up with the ideas... He does what makes me happy BUT we have the same tastes and likes so he is happy with everything. I never make a firm desicion without his approval.... He gives his input and we compromise on everything.. He's liked all my ideas so far and hes picked things out as well.... We do work good together...I love him LOL!
shoegal68
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lets see... he came to the church, RH, travel agent.. thats it folks! at first i was getitng upset. but you know he can't make decisions. you had to see how stressed he got picking out pics for our STD !
i always tell him who i book & the price.. but the chances of him remembeing the name of the florist are next to nothing
