Extremely Upset!!

My cousin (the one whos wedding I went to in April and is paying for my HM) just texted me...his wife had a miscarriage last night.

I was just at their house Sunday watching their wedding video and looking at her sonogram and talking about the baby.

Im soo upset and cant believe this. And what makes me even more mad is that people that shouldnt even be having a kid ::cough:FH's friend whos been with his girl only 3 months::cough:: are having one and my cousin just had his taken away.

I dont even wanna be at work anymore.

I'm so sorry to hear that.

For what it's worth, it's totally normal, and it doesn't mean that they cannot try again in a few months. I know that right now that doesn't matter, but, in the long run, it will work out, and they will be fine, and they will get pregnant again, and have a happy, healthy baby! (Or two or three)

omg, I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!

OMG i am so unbelievably sorry!!!! What a terrible loss. When my RB and FG were born they weren't just supposed to be twins ..they were originally triplets... and when we found out she had lost one we were devastated. People would say to her...at least u have 2 more..but no one realizes how hard that is.. even though you haven't seen them yet..u have an attachment to that child. I am very sorry for your loss.. you are your cousin will be in my prayers

oh no!!! that is awful, im sorry to hear so sad i remember seeing your post on how happy you were.

So sorry love

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

I'm so sorry to hear that.

For what it's worth, it's totally normal, and it doesn't mean that they cannot try again in a few months. I know that right now that doesn't matter, but, in the long run, it will work out, and they will be fine, and they will get pregnant again, and have a happy, healthy baby! (Or two or three)

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very true.. a miscarriage in no way means they won't be able to have another child.. of course right now that's not where your head is gonna be.. but eventually they will get pregnant again and eventually they will be ok and it will get better.

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Posted by jennandrolo

My cousin (the one whos wedding I went to in April and is paying for my HM) just texted me...his wife had a miscarriage last night.

I was just at their house Sunday watching their wedding video and looking at her sonogram and talking about the baby.

Im soo upset and cant believe this. And what makes me even more mad is that people that shouldnt even be having a kid ::cough:FH's friend whos been with his girl only 3 months::cough:: are having one and my cousin just had his taken away.

I dont even wanna be at work anymore.

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Babe, I know this is really hard for you and your loved ones to wrap your heads around right now~but please remember that God's will played a part in this, maybe it prevented a complication to her or the baby's health, we won't know, but rest assured that when they are to blessed with a child it will happen as he wants.
Try not to think negatively about others carrying child, it's not healthy for you or them, trust me on this to keep good karma

That is terrible. . My prayers go out to you and your fam. And you should definitely leave work and go be with them if thats what you want. You just suffered a loss.

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Posted by florezpeeps

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Posted by jennandrolo

My cousin (the one whos wedding I went to in April and is paying for my HM) just texted me...his wife had a miscarriage last night.

I was just at their house Sunday watching their wedding video and looking at her sonogram and talking about the baby.

Im soo upset and cant believe this. And what makes me even more mad is that people that shouldnt even be having a kid ::cough:FH's friend whos been with his girl only 3 months::cough:: are having one and my cousin just had his taken away.

I dont even wanna be at work anymore.

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Babe, I know this is really hard for you and your loved ones to wrap your heads around right now~but please remember that God's will played a part in this, maybe it prevented a complication to her or the baby's health, we won't know, but rest assured that when they are to blessed with a child it will happen as he wants.
Try not to think negatively about others carrying child, it's not healthy for you or them, trust me on this to keep good karma

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Very well said. I believe in that too.

awww i am so sorry!

OMG. Omg. OMg. I know too many of those. My cousin has had three (she has severe diabetes) and Ive been devastated every time.....
I am so so sorry. Im ehre if you need me

So sorry for you and your family.

I will include them in my prayers!

As someone else said - i am a huge believer in everything happens for a reason. This wasn't the right time for them...maybe there would've been life threatening complications for your cousin, maybe she needed to build up her immunity or something.. It will happen - when the time is right - it will happen!

We're all here if you need to chat!!!!

Sorry

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Posted by florezpeeps

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Posted by jennandrolo

My cousin (the one whos wedding I went to in April and is paying for my HM) just texted me...his wife had a miscarriage last night.

I was just at their house Sunday watching their wedding video and looking at her sonogram and talking about the baby.

Im soo upset and cant believe this. And what makes me even more mad is that people that shouldnt even be having a kid ::cough:FH's friend whos been with his girl only 3 months::cough:: are having one and my cousin just had his taken away.

I dont even wanna be at work anymore.

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Babe, I know this is really hard for you and your loved ones to wrap your heads around right now~but please remember that God's will played a part in this, maybe it prevented a complication to her or the baby's health, we won't know, but rest assured that when they are to blessed with a child it will happen as he wants.
Try not to think negatively about others carrying child, it's not healthy for you or them, trust me on this to keep good karma

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i know im going to try my hardest and not think evil thoughts.