F-ing P.O.ed

MrsCastanedain09 Posted: May 04, 2009 03:13 PM

F-ing P.O.ed

It's not like me to vent. But I'm REALLY POed.

I have 2 MOH's, 1 is my sister...and I understand she's 22 and has graduation on her mind (it's on the 16th). I have avoided bombarding her with wedding stuff for he past 2 months because I know how hectic this time can be but, why did she just ask me when my bridal shower is?!?!?!

She is trying to do a summer session abroad and they all overlapped with my shower, she asked me when it was.

I want to ask her to step down but I'm trying to be too reactive. SERIOUSLY, I put the kid through school....shouldn't you give 2 sh**s?! I may return her MOH dress (I bought it) and just put her in a regular BM dress...this is ridiculous.

Eweluska17 Posted: May 04, 2009 03:21 PM

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My little sis is my MOH and she is in California, so I get no help from her. I know how you feel, but at the end of the day if she is not yor MOH you might regret it. Think about it

Juhgail Posted: May 04, 2009 03:41 PM

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Im sorry your pissed.

Think about why you asked her to be MOH in the first place. Use HER as the love and support person, and the other MOH as your planner/ helper.

Does that help at all?

But dont demote her. Take some time to think about this before doing anything rash :)

MrsCastanedain09 Posted: May 04, 2009 03:47 PM

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Thanks girls. You're all the best.

EmiNoa628 Posted: May 04, 2009 03:51 PM

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Posted by Juhgail

Im sorry your pissed.

Think about why you asked her to be MOH in the first place. Use HER as the love and support person, and the other MOH as your planner/ helper.

Does that help at all?

But dont demote her. Take some time to think about this before doing anything rash :)

I believe Juhgail is right... In addition be proud that your sister is actually doing something productive and be proud... I know how stressful it may be.. My sister is juggling F/T School, F/T Mom, My wedding and other everyday situation .. But I appreciate all she does and I'm very proud of her..