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Father/Daughter Song?

EricaOT Posted:

Father/Daughter Song?

OK...I feel a little stupid asking this question.

Is the song supposed to be picked from the Daugher to her father, or Father to his Daughter?

I know it depends on the father and daughter, but, does it make a difference? Am I supposed to pick it to honor and thank my father? or Should I have him pick it?


Oh--Goodness...Why am I making myself nuts.
tanielle5k Posted:

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Oh boy, I never thought about it like that! I guess I always figured it was a song I pick to honor my father...but maybe you are right.

To make matters more complex, I want to pick a song for my stepfather too. eeek!
JBKempf Posted:

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I think its the daughter honoring the father and how he brought her up till this point and is now giving her away.

CaCRmr Posted:

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In my case I couldn't pick a song to dance with my father so I asked him to choose it. He chose 'Daddy's Little Girl' along with 'Times of Your Life' .... they meshed the two together and it sounded wonderful.

I think it's a song from the Father to Daughter. JMO
Empire State Posted:

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i always thought the bride chose but my mom thought my dad should. i told him i liked In my daughter's eyes and he agreed that he liked it so that's what we are going to go with, i think.

jfabbride Posted:

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IMO, it's supposed to be a song that means something to the both of you. We used 'If I had the World to Give' because my dad used to sing it to me when I was a baby.

Empire State Posted:

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Here are the words--by martina mcbride

In My Daughter's Eyes
In my daughter's eyes I am a hero
I am strong and wise and I know no fear
But the truth is plain to see
She was sent to rescue me
I see who I wanna be
In my daughter's eyes

In my daughter's eyes everyone is equal
Darkness turns to light and the
world is at peace
This miracle God gave to me gives me
strength when I am weak
I find reason to believe
In my daughter's eyes

And when she wraps her hand
around my finger
Oh it puts a smile in my heart
Everything becomes a little clearer
I realize what life is all about

It's hangin' on when your heart
has had enough
It's giving more when you feel like giving up
I've seen the light
It's in my daugter's eyes

In my daughter's eyes I can see the future
A reflection of who I am and what will be
Though she'll grow and someday leave
Maybe raise a family
When I'm gone I hope you see how happy
she made me
For I'll be there
In my daughter's eyes

EricaOT Posted:

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I love Martina McBride's song and wold love to have it sung by the male singer in our wedding band. My mother thinks the song should be a surprise. So I feel funny about picking a song about what I think I mean to my dad...

If I were to pick a song with meaning about how I feel about my dad I think I would pick 'Because You Loved Me.'

I'll talk to him and get his opinion. I was just wondering if there was a rule.

Thanks for your opionions.

Hummm... excuse my horrific spelling. Oops.
tanielle5k Posted:

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I love the idea of surprising my dad, but I am already fearing how overly emotional he will be that day!!! I think I better tell him in advance so at least he is prepared.

EricaOT Posted:

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'Emotional' isn't the word....a couple of years ago I put my mothers wedding dress on and he started crying.
salsbride06 Posted:

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Posted by Empire State

i always thought the bride chose but my mom thought my dad should. i told him i liked In my daughter's eyes and he agreed that he liked it so that's what we are going to go with, i think.



that is the song that i will be using to dance with my father.
littlebookworm4 Posted:

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i guess it doesn't really matter. i'd say it depends on the 2 of you

micmar Posted:

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I'm leaning towards 'My Girl' by the Temptations or 'Anytime you need a Friend' by Mariah Carey. My dad was just diagnosed with prostate cancer, so thinking of this is making me emotional right now!!!

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