I have 5 months left and I feel like I just want this all to be over. I am not savoring the moment in any way. I am dreading having to walk down the aisle and everyone staring at me. I don't like being the center of attention and now that its so close I'm having a very hard time with it. I'm getting very anxious about it. Anyone else share my feelings?
I totally understand... I am very self-conscious. I dread my shower, my bachelorette party, the ceremony and the reception. I just want ALL DONE!!
I totally relate. The thought of walking down he aisle, the 1st dance and the father daughter dance. I get very anxious every time I think about it like now. Instead of wishing for the day to be over I want the day to slow down getting here, time is going to fast now. I am hoping by the time the wedding gets here I can get over my anxiety.
believe it or not, i hate being the center of attention. fh and i want this over with also. i have a feeling when our turns come... it will go by sooo quick, that we're going to get sad aand want to do it alll over again
Go to Dr and get a light tranquilizer
yea i feel the same. i dont mind around friends but i have a problem infront of FH's family and people I don't know. like im so embaressed to dance infront of FH's parents idk why lol. and i think cause im so self concious about my body. i want to look perfect and i know i wont. i wish i was a size 10 and i would happy. thats my goal but it wont happen.
I had this exact meltdown with FH last night. I hate wedding planning. I just want it to be finished. I'm looking forward to the honeymoon.
I can't wait for the wedding so we can share the day with family and friends but I also hate being the center of attention. That will feel so weird but I feel like I will be soooo happy that I won't even pay attention or have time to feel nervous about being the center of attention.
Posted by peaches42587
yea i feel the same. i dont mind around friends but i have a problem infront of FH's family and people I don't know. like im so embaressed to dance infront of FH's parents idk why lol. and i think cause im so self concious about my body. i want to look perfect and i know i wont. i wish i was a size 10 and i would happy. thats my goal but it wont happen.
i really don't mind the planning, i just hate all the politics that go along with it. constant arguing & disagreeing. constantly watching money like a hawk. not to mention the stress. i am normally stressed out & this just adds to it. i am totally looking forward to the honeymoon.
its gonna fly by, dont worry, im sure you wont feel like that that day cuz everything will be happening so fast, youll prob want it to be longer
Posted by Jna2010
its gonna fly by, dont worry, im sure you wont feel like that that day cuz everything will be happening so fast, youll prob want it to be longer
I feel the same way as you do! I HATE being the center of attention... I've already told my dj that I don't want him calling me out to the floor or anything throughout the night. The stress about money and everything being just right is annoying me so much to the point that I hate to say it but I can't wait for the wedding to be over so that we can just go back to our normal lives that don't revolve around the wedding..
im not dreading it... but it does make me uncomfortable to have that kind of attention... hopefully i will be too preoccupied that day to really let it bother me...
Posted by Kiki1103
Posted by Jna2010
its gonna fly by, dont worry, im sure you wont feel like that that day cuz everything will be happening so fast, youll prob want it to be longer
ITA, the day is going to be so quick. I think you are just a little nervous now but when the day actually comes its going to be the best day of your life with FH so far! You are marrying the man of your dreams![]()
Don't let it get to you. Just enjoy the day knowing everyone is there to share in you and FH's happiness. And once it's over, you get to spend the rest of your life with FH! Just look past the wedding to the marriage part! And you're *almost* there!!
Posted by Spring143
Go to Dr and get a light tranquilizer
