Feeling kind of depressed
I accidentally posted this on BHB. I meant to post on our board.
So even though my shower is supposed to be a surprise I know some details about it. I was asking FH about the guest list and people's responses and he tells me that most of his side is saying no! I know if I use the word 'white-trash' to describe them some of you will think 'wow what a b itch' but if you knew them and witnessed some of the things I've seen I think you would all agree. But I've always been very nice and friendly with them all whenever I see them.
So now I feel like this is a slap in the face for me. And they don't have any good excuses like being on vacation or previous engagements, just 'No'. I just feel so aggrivated over this. And then I think of my mom who's trying so hard to make this shower perfect for me and these people have the nerve to not even show up?!?! Nor did they respond, my aunt had to call FH's mom to find out what was going on with her side of the family b/c no one even bothered to call.
Needless to say these are the same people who have yet to repsond for the wedding. Although one said no so Im assuming the rest will probably follow. Whatever.
So even though my shower is supposed to be a surprise I know some details about it. I was asking FH about the guest list and people's responses and he tells me that most of his side is saying no! I know if I use the word 'white-trash' to describe them some of you will think 'wow what a b itch' but if you knew them and witnessed some of the things I've seen I think you would all agree. But I've always been very nice and friendly with them all whenever I see them.
So now I feel like this is a slap in the face for me. And they don't have any good excuses like being on vacation or previous engagements, just 'No'. I just feel so aggrivated over this. And then I think of my mom who's trying so hard to make this shower perfect for me and these people have the nerve to not even show up?!?! Nor did they respond, my aunt had to call FH's mom to find out what was going on with her side of the family b/c no one even bothered to call.
Needless to say these are the same people who have yet to repsond for the wedding. Although one said no so Im assuming the rest will probably follow. Whatever.
