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FESMIL Vent!!!!!!!

JoesFutureWife Posted:

FESMIL Vent!!!!!!!

In case you don't realize that acronym, it stands for future ex-step mother in law. FFIL is divorced, again, (Ross from friends style) and FH's little half-sister who i adore to pieces, is one of my FGs. FESMIL couldnt bring FSIL out here to get measured for the gown (they live in norther nj) even though i gave her 8 months notice and a three month time span. She couldnt do it. She was mad that we didnt go visit her last summer...umm sorry but i was in the hospital having my throat sliced open. Now the gowns are in. She refuses to pay for the other half of the dress which the remaining balance is $60. I would understand if she was in a bad financial state however she makes 6 figures a year and just spent $4,000 for her, and $4000 for my FBIL (yes her ex step son) to go to a convention in Chicago. So the money is not an issue. It is out of spite for FFIL that she refuses to pay for the $60 for the dress. However, FFIL is in a poor financial state and a bit of a louse so he has no $$ to pay for the gown. Fantastic. Puts me in an odd place. He says he will get the $$ together hopefully soon. Meanwhile FH just bout $40 worth of girl scout cookies from FSIL and i bout an additional $40 worth so she had a better quantity ordered. So needless to say, FESMIL is on my not so nice list. I know it will work out but why does our wedding have to be the place for spite?!
Im hittin the chocolate chip cookies! No no change that. Im eating my $40 worth of gs cookies!

Edit: Just to clarify, it's nothing personal FESMIL has against me or FH, she is disgusted with FFIL.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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wow im sorry..I hope everything works out

Mici n KC Posted:

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That sux she is being spiteful towards your FFIL!

JoesFutureWife Posted:

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Posted by Mici n KC

That sux she is being spiteful towards your FFIL!


I see it as she is spiting her daughter. I didnt have to include her in the bp but i wanted to so she could feel special. She is an innocent little girl and she cant wait to be a fg. How could $60 when you have $$, have your ex husband regret doing the things he did??
debismom Posted:

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Linda, hon, I'm sorry!! Why can't people just be nice???? Mary MOB
jeanyus27 Posted:

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Thats wrong for her to take that out on you. She should be happy for her daughter and do what is right for her child

DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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I'm so sorry that she's being so spiteful!

Just remember what goes around comes around!

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