FFIL Help **UPDATED** (little long sorry--slight vent!)
Hey ladies,
Happy Monday to all! Some of you may remember that i posted last week about FMIL not wanting FFIL's name on the invitation....well she wasn't sure if she wanted him on the invite because she raised my FH basically without FFIL's help since FH was 9. Thing is FFIL is back in the picture and around constantly. FH and i had a talk and he decided he want's his dad on the invite which is good because i dont think our wedding should be the time to punish FFIL for what he has done (keep in mind im not a big fan of FFIL in the first place). Heres the drama:
FH talked to FMIL as they were driving in the car today about having him on the invite. The good part: FMIL said its fine to have FFIL's name on the invite. The crazy part: she tells FH that she never said she didnt want him on the invite she just wanted her name to go first.![]()
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When he told me that i almost threw up. Granted he said to me 'dont get stressed because she doesnt remember what she says half of the time so i know she must have said it.' Now FMIL and i get along really well. But i just wanted to scream. I know im not going crazy and that she did not want him on the invite i politely suggested having him on the invite but putting her name first. ![]()
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Please tell me im not crazy.
Happy Monday to all! Some of you may remember that i posted last week about FMIL not wanting FFIL's name on the invitation....well she wasn't sure if she wanted him on the invite because she raised my FH basically without FFIL's help since FH was 9. Thing is FFIL is back in the picture and around constantly. FH and i had a talk and he decided he want's his dad on the invite which is good because i dont think our wedding should be the time to punish FFIL for what he has done (keep in mind im not a big fan of FFIL in the first place). Heres the drama:
FH talked to FMIL as they were driving in the car today about having him on the invite. The good part: FMIL said its fine to have FFIL's name on the invite. The crazy part: she tells FH that she never said she didnt want him on the invite she just wanted her name to go first.
