Im just curious is anyones FH involved in planning and excited? My FH helps me with anything i want him to...sometimes i rather do things alone but like to include him. Ive read so many posts about FH not being involved so i decided to post about one that does!
sr081906
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My DH was very involved.
rachie
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My FH is very much involved especially since he is out on disability
Chrissywish
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Well we are only at the point now of picking a hall and a date. When I run dates through my head that I like I ask him and we have agreed on aug/oct. We'll see what happens when we go to the halls. As for the hall search, I am always bouncing different things off him and asking him questions when he asks....but my mother and I will be going to all the halls and looking and asking all the questions and then we will narrow it down to 3 (that's if there is 1 i dont just fall in love with). Once we do that we'll bring dad and FH to make a decision. He has already told me he doesnt care about flowers or the invites or the dj or even the limo (just as long as he gets one) and i can pick it all out.
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FH is involved when we have time to talk about it. He jokes sayin that he come to the church.But he has had just as much to say as I have.\
he is too cute with wanting to help...i love it!
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Mine was as involved as a 2X4. NOT AT ALL. He drove me up the wall with his indifference...but the second I'd say 'this is what we're doing for...' he suddnely had opinions and it started that whole arguement again....i always just stopped it with 'The Little Red Hen.' Remember that story?
ChrisnAmy
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Mine is involved!
06NovBride
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Mine was very involved at first. He wanted to be part of everything. Now two years later he is a lot less involved. The only thing he really wants say in now is the music.
D's Girl
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My FH is involved in everything
IMO, I would not want it any other way. It's our day
leshellem
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mine suck. Its like pulling teeth to get an opinion from him.
Marly
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My FH has been involved every step of the way.
MandG072909
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mine was pickey and choosey...he could have cared less about the RH, photographer, flowers so I did a lot of that w/ my mom and just checked with him before booking but he latched onto random things like the favors and the fact that we NEEDED bubbles at the ceremony which worked out fine because those things were less important to me so it gave me the illusion he was helping and him the illusion that he had input...hahahaha...oh and he also made us one heck of a card box
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My fiance is involved with every aspect of the wedding. It's the way we do everything in our lives (together), so it is no surprise that it's how we are planning our wedding.
He has come to every appointment (including hair and makeup trials!) and has helped me design every part of our day. He has great ideas and is as 'into' the wedding planning as I am.
He's even getting so excited now about the response cards that are coming in. He's so freaking cute - I love him!!!
kimnsteve
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I can't say that mine is totally involved but i think once it gets a little closer he will be helpful
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Posted by CLMon7906
Mine was as involved as a 2X4. NOT AT ALL. He drove me up the wall with his indifference...but the second I'd say 'this is what we're doing for...' he suddnely had opinions and it started that whole arguement again....i always just stopped it with 'The Little Red Hen.' Remember that story?
seriously if i wasnt getting married -and it was legal - i would marry you!!!!!
LOL FH is not involved at all - but so far i am having fun anyway!
MJDoc12
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i'm very fortunate to have an extremely involved FH. he's the best
Lools
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MY FH is wonderful and he actually really likes helping! And I'd prefer to have his help over anyone elses' to be perfectly honest! We have almost the exact same taste and where we differ we compromise very easily! I love him!!
We are going to the Bridal Extravaganza together this weekend. Anyone else going???
FrogGirl0917
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He is very involved - sometimes to the point of driving me nuts!!! Every now and again he jokingly calls himself groomzilla!
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Posted by Hallowedding
My fiance is involved with every aspect of the wedding. It's the way we do everything in our lives (together), so it is no surprise that it's how we are planning our wedding.
He has come to every appointment (including hair and makeup trials!) and has helped me design every part of our day. He has great ideas and is as 'into' the wedding planning as I am.
He's even getting so excited now about the response cards that are coming in. He's so freaking cute - I love him!!!
Mine is the same! I love it!! Yay for involved FHs
pigs222seal
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My DH was involved in most of the decisions for vendors, cake, linens; etc...
He didn't help much with the DIY, but I thought they were fun.......except fot the Invites...they were a bit of a pain but then he joined in to give me a hand. I will give him an E- for effort!!
Only in front of his friends he would comment: 'just tell me where and when, and I'll be there.' But then I would blow his cover and say something like 'how's your hand feeling.' He hurt his hand while making our photo box.
