Well his parent are suppose to pay for the food to b e catered to our engagement party. Well he just call me to let me know that his parents dont want to and they want to just cook for it Now we are having 80 ppl and i dont think that his parents nor my parent should do anything for this party except for us and now my fh is yell at me. im like you dont i have enough on my plate with my grandma and now i have to worry about this. I dont need this,
mdawg
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awwwwe sweetie :( maybe you could convince them that cooking for 80 people will be a lot more difficult than they think it will be, and probably LESS expensive... did they say why they didnt want to?
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I am so sorry that all of this is happening at once...my advice is to put it aside for today..enjoy the 4th and then tackle this issue in the morning...don't panic! It will all work out!
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Didn't his parents say that they would let you have a birthday party for FH at their house and then at the last minute cancel it on you guys and now they are trying to tell you this ... why do they always go against their words !!! I would be pissed and learn that they are not reliable people !!! like lmt245 said just try and enjoy the 4th and maybe you can talk about it tommorrow.
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Definitly do not freak.... right now whats most important is your grandmother... just focus your time and energy on her.... When your in a better place mentally talk to his parents... ask how they plan on cooking for 80 people... maybe they have a good plan....try to give them the benefit of the doubt.... However if it's not making sense maybe you'll have to take matters into your own hands and pay for it to be catered... Good Luck,.
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Posted by mdawg
awwwwe sweetie :( maybe you could convince them that cooking for 80 people will be a lot more difficult than they think it will be, and probably LESS expensive... did they say why they didnt want to?
They told us that they will pay for it t o be catered
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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
Didn't his parents say that they would let you have a birthday party for FH at their house and then at the last minute cancel it on you guys and now they are trying to tell you this ... why do they always go against their words !!! I would be pissed and learn that they are not reliable people !!! like lmt245 said just try and enjoy the 4th and maybe you can talk about it tommorrow.
You are correct on that, i am enjoying my 4 i slept from lol 5-9 it was realli nice. thanks ladies im going to take care of my grandma first then ill start to worried about this... thanks again for always being there
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Posted by FalNBill
Definitly do not freak.... right now whats most important is your grandmother... just focus your time and energy on her.... When your in a better place mentally talk to his parents... ask how they plan on cooking for 80 people... maybe they have a good plan....try to give them the benefit of the doubt.... However if it's not making sense maybe you'll have to take matters into your own hands and pay for it to be catered... Good Luck,.
I completely agree, maybe they will be able to pull it off, and no matter what happens you will still enjoy your day
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awwwwe sweetie :( maybe you could convince them that cooking for 80 people will be a lot more difficult than they think it will be, and probably LESS expensive... did they say why they didnt want to?
They told us that they will pay for it t o be catered
right, but now they dont want to pay for it, so if theres no catering you would cook for them... maybe i misunderstood.. sorry.
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awwwwe sweetie :( maybe you could convince them that cooking for 80 people will be a lot more difficult than they think it will be, and probably LESS expensive... did they say why they didnt want to?
They told us that they will pay for it t o be catered
right, but now they dont want to pay for it, so if theres no catering you would cook for them... maybe i misunderstood.. sorry.
That is ok. but thanks for understanding,,,, again thanks ladies for all your help
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Awww hun I'm so sorry.......You really don't need this right now! Hopefully everything works out!