FH and his best man haven't spoken in 3 weeks. They are both acting like a bunch of babies. We have to send out our invites and FH said that 'John' is not invited. They work together and got in a stupid fight over work stuff. It's so ridiculous. He told John's dad to tell him that he is not invited. I am pretty close with John. Fh told me (obviously jokingly) that he will uninvite ME if I send an invite to John.
Should I get involved at all? They are both stubborn and I can see this dragging on for months.
Kerin2804
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Honestly I would talk to 'john' if you can - fh is stressed over the wedding and they are obviously close enough thatfh asked him to be the bm - they will both regret it if they let a trivial work argument make them miss this once in a lifetime opportunity.
kslmbuggie
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you should stay out of it & respect your FH's wishes. going behind his back will only be bad for your relationship. I'm sure they will make up eventually, but if they dont you dont want there to be any resentment from your FH because you did something that he did not want you to do.
trojo1521
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I think guys have a way of working this out themselves and I would stay out of it. Your FH is obviously close with him (closer than you) so I am sure he will get over the work fight and see the bigger picture.
bluekat16
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Posted by kslmbuggie
you should stay out of it & respect your FH's wishes. going behind his back will only be bad for your relationship. I'm sure they will make up eventually, but if they dont you dont want there to be any resentment from your FH because you did something that he did not want you to do.
I couldn't agree more...well said.
Valerie-Joe
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I'd stay out of it. The most important person in attendance is FH so if he doesn't want John - leave him out.
They'll probably work it out before September (he can have special RSVP rules if you hand him an invite once they make up).
Good luck!
escobooker
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I think you should try to tallk to your FHbecause it also affects you, misunderstandings betweeen people happen all the time, people have their differences, Im sure it wasnt bad enought that they cant talk it over and make up. Im sure theres already enough stress as it is because of the wedding planning, you dont need any more stress. Talk to your FH, let him know how its affecting you.
