i have been friends with a girl since i am 10 ( i am 26 now) and we were best friends for most of those years. over the past 2 years we grew apart and arent super close any more but we are still friends and when i do see her its as if nothing has changed,. she is still in my circle of friends.
FH and her dont get along. i want her in my BP and he says that i am disrespecting him by doing that.
what are your opinions? i wouldnt feel right if she wasnt up their with me.
2007 Crescent Bride
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I would talk to FH about this more. Ultimately it is your choice and you need to tell him that it is important to you that she be in the bridal party.
CloudNine
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we've talked about it so much, its like beating a dead horse. i tell him that its important to me to have her there and i fi didnt like someone on his side i would sill suck it up and wouldnt care but he keeps saying its disrepect
jtgarsik
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if something happened between the two of them, like they had a big fight & she majorly disrespected him or something - then i could see his side holding some water...BUT, if they just simply 'don't get along' and he just doesn't like her, then he's being stubborn and imho HE is disrespecting YOU by not letting her be in the bp..he needs to suck it up. REALLY think about ur decision because u dont want any regrets later on.. hope it all works out!
angels914
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When I chose people to be in our bridal party ... We chose people who are our good friends ( who we are always in touch with ) or family ! You say that you have not been close with her for 2 years now, but when you see her it seems like things have not changed ! I would sit down with FH and talk to him again and ask him to really think about what he does not like about her... ( unless you know what it is already!) It is not a good situation .. Good Luck ! Keep us updated !!!!!!
RitasEngaged
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I think he is being ridiculous. It is one day. He needs to just get over it. If it is something you really want than you should have her in your party.
mrsjpc3
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unless your friend and FH had a huge falling out, then he really needs to suck it up for one day. For instance, I have forbidden one of his friends to even be invited, because of something that happened. FH is kinda upset by this, but e understands, and knows I am right.
