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lmr2282 Posted:

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All we do is argue lately! I really cant take it anymore. Is it anyone else or just me.

Princesa Posted:

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It nust be something in the air b/c my FH is nice one day then a totla pain the next. I swear he has PMS!!! It's driving me crazy, I never know what his attitude is going to be.

WishfulRinne Posted:

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We ahve been bickering alot lately. Youre not alone. We are all stressed!!

lmr2282 Posted:

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I have had it lately. And we don't even live in the same state! I want to know what happens when the ring comes? Between him and his family Im losing it.

VeggieBride Posted:

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blame the weather. FH and I go into a winter depression and it just causes problems. We need to move south.

lmr2282 Posted:

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Posted by VeggieBride

blame the weather. FH and I go into a winter depression and it just causes problems. We need to move south.



He is south! So it's not the weather, it's him!
FutureMrsG Posted:

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We went through the same thing all through the holidays-Things are better now. We talked for a long time on christmas night and cleared up a bunch of stuff.

shell1879 Posted:

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it's the stress of everything holidays, new years, wedding, family.... and what not.

i know FH and I have our ups and downs but every relationship does. there is no real realationship that is 100% perfect all the time.
Princesa Posted:

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I will agree, every relationship does have its ups and downs and no relationship is perfect. The arguments make us stronger.

JennyAPH Posted:

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We were fighting for a while but that seems to have died down. Everyone has their ups and downs
Im a Pepper Posted:

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We've been arguing a lot recently too. There's a lot of stress and pressure and I'm taking a lot of it out on him. I'm also letting little things get to me, which isn't normal.

Aristotelina Posted:

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Yes, Im with you. FH and I NEVER u sed to fight, but after we started planning the wedding, we fight a lot more often.
gina409 Posted:

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weddings r stressful im sure all will be fine..hang in there
coldasice217 Posted:

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I think it's completely normal, and is happening to most of us, whether it's admitted or not. When you start panning a wedding, it gets more real that you're going to be together forever (or so), so things that didn't matter as much when you were just going out to dinner or watching tv together start to become more important. Hang in there...this too shall pass
xosweetiexo Posted:

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You are not alone!!! We argue and have lots of tiffs here and there ... esp with the stress of money and holidays. He keeps reminding me that not all relationships are perfect and EVERYONE fights.... if you DONT fight about something... then there is a problem lol I cant stand it when people say 'my FH and I never argue'... Yeaaaaaa Right LOL!!! Relationships and marriage all require effort and compromising.

dutchessev Posted:

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We have been fighting a little more than often but I think that it is stress. The economy is really good right now so every one is a little stressed out plus with spending so much money on the holiday that didn't help.

jennaandguy09 Posted:

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FH just quit smoking and is totally miserable, he's driving me insane, so we've been bickering more than usual!

lmr2282 Posted:

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Well thanks ladies. Im glad im not alone. I just feel like we can be so fine one day and laughing and joking then with one word it turns into an argument. The biggest thing is that he is in FL and im here he was supposed to move up this summer but is remodeling his parents house. FMIL keeps adding things to the list and now we are in our wedding year and still no FH. So im pretty pissed off lately too. I feel like FMIL is doing this on purpose.

MrsInglima Posted:

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It's probably just stress from planning the wedding. About 4-5 months ago, for about 2 months FH and I were like that. We would fight about money a lot, and then it spilled to other stupid things. We sat down and had a really long talk about it and things have been a lot better since then.

Deeglasser Posted:

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i just feel like everything will fall into place and if things don't work out the way i ideally want them to, it's probably for a good reason. we have a RH and a church and we just registered for pre-cana and hopefully i'll have a dress next week... we have been engaged since may and that's all we have right now! really, that's all fine with me! i'm taking my time, soaking it all in and enjoying it... we are not rushing to have it planned it will get done eventually!

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