are fighting ugh. He bowls on thursday nights and due to the weather I told him I really dont want to use my car and he doesnt have one so I told him we cant go- I get aniexty and very nervous on the roads in this weather. Bowling notg important but he umemployed and been home all day so he like omg are you seriuos and I was like tomorrow too the weather- and he getting all P M S on me
Jessc4985
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OYE... I hate those fights.... My FH is currently looking for a job, his company went under... so it is kinda the same. On the weekends when I am beat from my week he is ready to goooo
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i would think the bowlng would be canceled (if it's a league or group that meets regularly).
I can see where he was looking forward to getting out the house; but seriously in this weather?? Most people are staying IN. I don't even want to go to the grocery store but we have NO food. I'm thinking what can i make with the few things i have in my cabinets???
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you're right about not wanting to go out ... it's supposed to get bad out and it's not worth taking the risk for BOWLING! lol
sorry you guys are fighting though ... he'll get over it eventually.
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i would think the bowlng would be canceled (if it's a league or group that meets regularly).
I can see where he was looking forward to getting out the house; but seriously in this weather?? Most people are staying IN. I don't even want to go to the grocery store but we have NO food. I'm thinking what can i make with the few things i have in my cabinets???
sounds like a delivery day to me
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I can't even go see him. Last night I stayed with my 90 yo grandparent since my grandfather was rushed to the er for a bleeding issue but he better now. All my stuff; clothing, hairdryer and etc there and i dont want to drive to him in this weather he just so grumpy and it is a league
im stressed enough
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Ohhh no i hear ya - i do see his POV as someone who only freelances and is home a lot but if he knows your issues w/ driving in this weather then he should understand.
If he wants to go cant he carpool with another person on his team??
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oh wait!!! i thought you guys lived together and he wanted to borrower your car! you have to drive him there? hell no! make it a blockbuster night and stay in!
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no his team mates cancelled on him becuase of the snow and he just like I hate being restricted and I am like im sorry I dont want to lose you or my car
I have an aunt whom I never met killed in car accident on astoria Blvd in queens. My dad made me promise him to be very careful and never drive in the rain (that was his sister) so i get aneixty and it is too much for me
Kuklitsa143
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we do but my stuff at my grandparents and I dont want to travel anymore than I have too tonight
get me?
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oh wait!!! i thought you guys lived together and he wanted to borrower your car! you have to drive him there? hell no! make it a blockbuster night and stay in!
he can drive me car but I am not even comfrtable with that
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I say do not do anything that you are not comfortable with!!!
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i would think the bowlng would be canceled (if it's a league or group that meets regularly).
I can see where he was looking forward to getting out the house; but seriously in this weather?? Most people are staying IN. I don't even want to go to the grocery store but we have NO food. I'm thinking what can i make with the few things i have in my cabinets???
sounds like a delivery day to me
LOL! I was thinking we'll probably be having Chinese tonight!
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may i ask, if you are not comfortable with him driving your car, why does he not get a car of his own? did he have a car at some point? i know now that he is looking for a job, he may not have the money to pay for one, but he can get one an old used one to chug around in so he doesn't always have to use yours. will you still feel uncomfortable with him using your car when you are married?
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I am uncomfortable with anyone driving my car in this weather- He has my car 24/7 and he has gotten into an accident with my car (when it was brand new) yet I still trust him but this weather scares the poop out of me
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I'm sorry you are upset.
Does he have the Wii bowling game? Then he can get his bowling fix and so he doesnt have to go out in this weather!
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he does - good idea lol thanks that made me smile
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are fighting ugh. He bowls on thursday nights and due to the weather I told him I really dont want to use my car and he doesnt have one so I told him we cant go- I get aniexty and very nervous on the roads in this weather. Bowling notg important but he umemployed and been home all day so he like omg are you seriuos and I was like tomorrow too the weather- and he getting all P M S on me
umm... are you me?? BC I am going through the EXACT same thing!! My FH bowls thursday after his class, and I really don't feel like going LOL. And he's unemployed too, it's like his day begins when I come home, and all I wanna do is crawl into bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's good to know I'm not the only one out there with this type of situation!!!
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are fighting ugh. He bowls on thursday nights and due to the weather I told him I really dont want to use my car and he doesnt have one so I told him we cant go- I get aniexty and very nervous on the roads in this weather. Bowling notg important but he umemployed and been home all day so he like omg are you seriuos and I was like tomorrow too the weather- and he getting all P M S on me
umm... are you me?? BC I am going through the EXACT same thing!! My FH bowls thursday after his class, and I really don't feel like going LOL. And he's unemployed too, it's like his day begins when I come home, and all I wanna do is crawl into bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's good to know I'm not the only one out there with this type of situation!!!
where does he bowl? Maybe they bowl the same league. It ***** but now he more understanding about the weather since I fell 3 times walkin to the train..
thanks for listenin to me vent
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are fighting ugh. He bowls on thursday nights and due to the weather I told him I really dont want to use my car and he doesnt have one so I told him we cant go- I get aniexty and very nervous on the roads in this weather. Bowling notg important but he umemployed and been home all day so he like omg are you seriuos and I was like tomorrow too the weather- and he getting all P M S on me
umm... are you me?? BC I am going through the EXACT same thing!! My FH bowls thursday after his class, and I really don't feel like going LOL. And he's unemployed too, it's like his day begins when I come home, and all I wanna do is crawl into bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's good to know I'm not the only one out there with this type of situation!!!
where does he bowl? Maybe they bowl the same league. It ***** but now he more understanding about the weather since I fell 3 times walkin to the train..
thanks for listenin to me vent
The AMF in Commack. He's in the men's league, and we bowl together in a vacation league..
