FH ex called him today

missjones2007 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:05 PM

FH ex called him today

I just got off the phone with him a minute ago and he tells me that his ex called who now lives in Las Vegas. I guess she called to see how he was doing and she told him that she been thinking about him lately and wanted to wish him congrats on his engagement ( she heard therough the grapevine) and telling him that i was a lucky girl...Then he told me she said she wish things would never gotten the way they did between them...then FH told her that he is happy now with me and brushed her off the phone...now we been together for 2 years and all of a sudden she wanna call out the blue

this makes me mad because when she had him she used and cheated on him and treated him like dirt....

i just dont get these females...they see a man with someone else and they wanna pop that noise...

anyone else ever been through this?

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:08 PM

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girls are such ***** (fill in the blank)

You have every right to be upset but at least he was honest with you (give him a hug/kiss for that)

Mrs B to Be Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:08 PM

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cant relate to the experience, but girls can be crazy sometimes! but good call on FH brushing her off! he should get a smile and kiss for that

missjones2007 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:11 PM

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oh trust me girls....he gon get millions of kisses!

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:13 PM

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Posted by missjones2007

oh trust me girls....he gon get millions of kisses!

YAYY for FH

VickiR510 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:27 PM

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Sort of.. She was never his girlfriend but she was good friends withhis cousin & so they always hung out when FH & his cousn hung out. The minute she met me & heard how happy FH was she told FH's cousin that she wanted to date him. So she (FH Cousin) told her forget it, he is happy & leave them alone. But FH just told her that he wasnt interested in her & that she should look elsewhere. Then comes to find out that she worked with my brother! My brother told me that she said she met me so I told him the story & he went back & told her dont even think about hitting on (FH) my sister will kick your ---! lol I thought that was pretty funny. lol Funny thing is I never really worried about it cause I knew i had that wrapped! lol lol lol J/K .

Some girls never know what they have until they dont have it anymore (not that she ever did anyway but you know hwat i mean).

Dont worry! Your man loves you & if she does call again he needs to make it clear that he doesnt need to keep in touch if it bothers you.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:31 PM

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You're a lucky girl? HA! He's a VERY LUCKY GUY!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:42 PM

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goood thing she lives in vegas huh? or else, if i was you, i'd be knockin down her door ready to kick some ***....

coley1027 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:42 PM

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ugh i can totally relate! fh has a crazy stalker ex gf from when they were 14 and 15 years old! yes you read that correctly.. so we're talking 8 years ago... well they dated for a year, broke up and then she moved to florida and hasnt seen him. anywho shes determined hes the love of her life. she writes him love poems, sends him emails confessing her love.. even went so far as to tell her friend who lives up here that theyre going to find out when the wedding is and crash it.

some girls really are so pathetic. i dont get it. weve been together over two years now, and fh and her dont talk, he cant stand her.. he thinks shes crazy and obsessive.. but i mean can you blame him?? so i dont get why some girls cant accept the reality and move on..

Marissa09Bride Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:48 PM

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Well it sounds like you definitely have a good, honest man. Maybe knowing that he's going to be officially off the market is making her want what she can't have. Oh well...HA HA to the ex

missjones2007 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 07:51 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

goood thing she lives in vegas huh? or else, if i was you, i'd be knockin down her door ready to kick some ***....

if i had the loot i would take a trip down there and whoop that BOO TAY!.....j/k.....i dont have time for her

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 08:28 PM

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Posted by missjones2007

Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

goood thing she lives in vegas huh? or else, if i was you, i'd be knockin down her door ready to kick some ***....

if i had the loot i would take a trip down there and whoop that BOO TAY!.....j/k.....i dont have time for her

Good attitude!

GiantsBride Posted: Mar 27, 2008 09:14 PM

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My FH had some weird girl from high school, that he barely knows, propose to him over instant messenger... talk about lame - and she says 'I know you have a super serious girlfriend, but...' But nothing hun... um pathetic much? My FH was totally weirded out... I just feel bad for her and kind of annoyed - us girls are supposed to stick together! No wonder guys think they can treat us poorly - we don't even respect one another.

michesq Posted: Mar 27, 2008 09:33 PM

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to heck with her. he did the right thing and he's with you

JackieV Posted: Mar 27, 2008 09:38 PM

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i totally understand FH had this 'ex' and she has issues. Now we have been together for over 5 years and i'm totally not the jealous type but this girl would do and say things that was messed up. FH used to say i was over reacting but a few weeks ago something happened and he finally relaized she still wants to be with him. He was like **** that. and will not have any contact with her anymore. (they really havent had to much contact she is married with kids) but now he completely cut her off.

KristiAnn923 Posted: Mar 27, 2008 09:55 PM

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Yes but the reverse. Since FH and I have been together EVERY one of my ex's has called to tell me what big mistakes they made by losing me. In fact I got an IM on Tuesday from my ex from 8 years ago who told me that he was thinking about me and missed me and wanted to get together for dinner

flairforfashion Posted: Mar 28, 2008 09:41 AM

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This always happen. When a girl treats a boy like sh*t and he goes off and finds someone else and is happy- it bugs her. She knows that he was a good man. What goes around comes around. Don't sweat it girly- in the end- it's you marrying him!

kabo0831 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 09:52 AM

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you have every right to be upset, i would if one of my fh's exs called my fh. Just think you have him now and no can take him away!!!

PoppedInASnap Posted: Mar 28, 2008 09:53 AM

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Ha... the opposite...my ex recently contacted me and i was laughing. he cheated on me and treated me like garbage and I guess wanted to see if there was a chance in hell since now I don't hear from him...

fh kinda got really mad also... but I guess thats just...usual since he loves me so much...

just, make sure that it was a one time only call and you are good :)