FH friends

nervousbride15 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 05:51 PM

FH friends

Do any of you ladies dislike friends or 1 particular friend of your FH and would like it if your FH stopped associating with them?

My Fh has 1 friend that I can't stand and he is causing some real unecessary problems!!

DjPiLL Posted: Jun 16, 2004 05:52 PM

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Call me nosey. What kind of problems is he causing?

nervousbride15 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 05:57 PM

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FH's friend and I have NEVER gotten along in the 5 years that FH and I have been together!
he has no respect for the fact that FH is in a relationship and getting married....

I dont mind that FH goes out for boys Nights and all, but when this friend tries to interfere with my relationship is when I get pist off

RedHead Posted: Jun 16, 2004 05:59 PM

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YES! I can't stand one of my FH's old friend...He is a piece of poo poo and i want nothing to do with him...I told my FH that he is not welcome in our house, i will not associate mysefl with him nor is he invited to our wedding! He understands why i say these things and aside from the occassional phone call to ask us for a 'favor' we rarely hear from him!

DjPiLL Posted: Jun 16, 2004 06:30 PM

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Posted by nervousbride15

FH's friend and I have NEVER gotten along in the 5 years that FH and I have been together!
he has no respect for the fact that FH is in a relationship and getting married....

I dont mind that FH goes out for boys Nights and all, but when this friend tries to interfere with my relationship is when I get pist off

Ahhhh... the hell with the friend then. Who cares what he says.

Murray Posted: Jun 16, 2004 06:32 PM

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My FI HAD a friend that I could not stand...Everytime we were together with this friend and his wife it would always cause my FI & I to get into a fight...(and we never fight). Luckily, this person is no longer a friend because he pissed my FI off! (and my FI realized what was going on...they were always one uping (sp?) us.)

OctBride05 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 07:28 PM

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my fh cousin is like that. he has no respect for me and when they used to go out together for boys night, he would always tell my fh that he should look for other girls, and that he could do better than me. even his fw is a ***** to me, but always talks nicely about me when i'm not there, and invited us to there 4th of july party

september2004 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 07:32 PM

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i can't say that i like ALL of FH's friends, but i respect the fact that he likes them. if anything 'questionable' is ever said, FH sticks up for me and that is all that i can really ask for...

kiwijonze Posted: Jun 16, 2004 07:45 PM

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I wouldn't go so far as to say I wish my FH would stop hanging out with this one particular guy (who also happens to be the best man), but this friend has a general lack of respect for relationships and women and acts like I stole my FH away from him (they used to be roommates) b/c this friend doesn't have much going on in his life other than random sex and a job he has been hating for 3 years. I just pray the speech at our wedding is tasteful...it's all I ask.

eogara Posted: Jun 16, 2004 07:52 PM

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Posted by september2004

i can't say that i like ALL of FH's friends, but i respect the fact that he likes them. if anything 'questionable' is ever said, FH sticks up for me and that is all that i can really ask for...

Same here. I can't stand one in particular and apparently the feeling is mutual (heard things he said about how FH is making a mistake, etc). But ultimately, this is FH's friend. He confronted him with things we heard he said and it's over with. FH is still considering putting him in the wedding party and, while I don't love the idea, I understand.