FH has gone cuckoo - update

MikesBride2B Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:41 AM

FH has gone cuckoo - update

It has been one of those mornings...I'll start by saying that today I'm leaving my house at 9am and I'm not getting back until 9pm. Long day.

So for some reason at 3am FH decides he wants the alarm to not go off on static, he wants it to go off on a station....SO HE STARTS TURNING IT ON AND TUNING IT WHILE I'M SLEEPING!!! WTH??? I'm like 'Why are you doing that RIGHT NOW?' and he asks me not to berate him about it since its 3am...helloooooo you DID IT at 3am so I'm gonna berate you. Anyway I go back to sleep.

6:30am rolls around and he's looking for his cooler...I have only an hour left to sleep at this point and thanks to his 3am antics I really really need it. Instead of letting me sleep he keeps coming in to ask have I seen the cooler? I keep listing places he can look but they aren't in any of them. I told him I didn't want to talk about it at 6:30am...he starts going off about how his lunch won't stay cold and 'FINE, I JUST WONT EVER BRING LUNCH THEN'....so of course now he's wanting to fight and I flip and storm out of bed looking for his stupid cooler...but I'm still half asleep and I can't process anger so I just start crying instead.

At that point he's way late for work so he apologizes but he's gotta leave while I'm still pretty worked up and crying. Then I go back to bed and by the time I fall asleep the alarm is going off.

Is there something in the water or something?? Full moon maybe?? I mean...yeesh. Bad morning.

UPDATE: Soooo I get home and FH was in FULL suck up mode...because he found the cooler in the trunk of his car!! I would have been angry except for the fact that he cleaned our whole room, put the bedskirt on the bed, changed the sheets and made the bed, washed all the dishes, emptied the dishwasher and was in the middle of doing laundry...sometimes a sh!tty morning is worth it if it means he gets all this done while I'm at school!!

grkbarbie Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:49 AM

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LOL!!! he sounds like meeeee

JillandJoe Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:49 AM

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omg, i hate my when fh does that stuff to me. If you did it to him, he'd bug right? Grrr men can be so annoying... just know ur not alone

GiannisWifey Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:50 AM

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ughhhhhhh men!!!

I hope your day gets better hun!!

christine2010 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:51 AM

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that's a pretty crappy morning.
If it make you feel better i had a similar conversation with FH at 1AM.

I normally am in bed, sound asleep by 10:30PM. I need 8 hours of sleep otherwise I am miserable all day. However, yesterday someone at the NFL decided there should be 2 games on for Monday Night Football. FH and his 3 friends where making so much friggen noise until 1AM. I had ear plugs in & I still heard them loud & clear. So after I laid in bed, wide awake for a half hour, I decided to tell FH it was time to call it a night. Well he decided to 'shoosh' me. I am so annoyed with him.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:53 AM

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sounds like a pretty fcuked up morning

sorry mama

MrsSoto Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:56 AM

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omg, he has gone cuckoooooo!!! seriously w t f, lol. im sorry hunny! men are the weirdest creatures ever, i swear

Future Mrs H Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:18 AM

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There must be something in the water. Last night at 9:45 FH calls me and complains that when I went food shopping for him last time that I bought 'cheap' butter. What the heck is cheap butter. Butter is butter!! He said its like a brick and it wont melt on his corn! Maybe the corn isnt hot enough and what the hell are you doing eating corn on the cob at 9:30 at night!!! I was sleeping and didnt want to fight about butter at 10:00 at night!!! And then of course I coulnt sleep after that.

I dont get men!

regy_k Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:29 AM

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OMG that is my FH to the T
that is what my FH always does to me.
def not a good way to start ur day. hopefully it will get better!

blessed18 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:36 AM

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oh sorry for the rough start...my FH is pretty good about not waking me up in the morning, he knows im a light sleeper. so i have caught him a couple of times with a flashlight looking for clothes and making sure he has the right color socks. gotta love him
but trust me he does things that irritate me.

MikesBride2B Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:55 AM

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I am so sad to hear its not just me with the cuckoo FH!!! We all need some of these

DaniandKen2010 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:57 AM

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Men....FH sometimes won't come to bed till late and he knows I can't sleep without him and then I start crying because I want to sleep and then he usually throws a temper tantrum...again MEN!!

JAAMS Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:39 AM

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gotta love when men PMS

hope the rest of your day is better!

italgal Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:53 AM

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CRY???? I would have come at him like a CRAZED WILD WOMAN FOAMING AT THE MOUTH!!! My FH knows better than to disturb at that hour for something stupid. For sure for something he should have taken care of the nIght before. Next time, jump up out of bed & come at him with the CRAZED WILD WOMAN ROUTINE...... He'll never expect it, he'll never forget you coming at him like that, you'll only have to do it once & it will cure him of that BS for good......trust me!

MikesBride2B Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:56 AM

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Posted by italgal

CRY???? I would have come at him like a CRAZED WILD WOMAN FOAMING AT THE MOUTH!!! My FH knows better than to disturb at that hour for something stupid. For sure for something he should have taken care of the nIght before. Next time, jump up out of bed & come at him with the CRAZED WILD WOMAN ROUTINE...... He'll never expect it, he'll never forget you coming at him like that, you'll only have to do it once & it will cure him of that BS for good......trust me!

LMAO I started out that way...I threw a pillow at him (he was in the hallway, I launched it from the bed haha) and I started cussing up a storm...but I was soooo out of it and tired I couldn't keep it up coz I just wanted to be asleep and not dealing with that crap. All my over the top emotions end in tears haha

halfbaked Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:59 AM

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Ugh, if only I knew half as much as FH expects me to. Hope your day is going better!!

italgal Posted: Sep 15, 2009 11:05 AM

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Posted by MikesBride2B

Posted by italgal

CRY???? I would have come at him like a CRAZED WILD WOMAN FOAMING AT THE MOUTH!!! My FH knows better than to disturb at that hour for something stupid. For sure for something he should have taken care of the nIght before. Next time, jump up out of bed & come at him with the CRAZED WILD WOMAN ROUTINE...... He'll never expect it, he'll never forget you coming at him like that, you'll only have to do it once & it will cure him of that BS for good......trust me!

LMAO I started out that way...I threw a pillow at him (he was in the hallway, I launched it from the bed haha) and I started cussing up a storm...but I was soooo out of it and tired I couldn't keep it up coz I just wanted to be asleep and not dealing with that crap. All my over the top emotions end in tears haha

A PILLOW????? No way! Get with the program babe..... you need a blunt object....like his alarm clock, his computer key board, you need to do some damage! Tatoo this image of a CRAZED WILD WOMAN in his mind. Next time he'll say to himself.......' I better not wake her up, last time she chucked my bowling ball at me!'