We keep arguing about when I am going off BC because he wants a baby ASAP. My biological clock is going but now as bad as his. He thinks I should stop using it 2 months before the wedding so we can get pregnant immediately. I keep telling him EVERYONE is different I may be the one who gets pregnant the minute I stop using BC and there is NO WAY I am being a pregnant bride (no offense to anyone who is, I just want to drink and not worry about it on my wedding day)
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awww he is so cute when my friend went off BC the Dr. told her to wait about 2-3 months before really starting trying. so I would 1st talk to ur Dr. and see what he/she thinks
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His bf's wife got pregnant right after she stopped taking her BC. I'm not taking any chances.
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aw! I Would stay on the BC until after the wedding - both times the doctor said to my sister 6 months and she got pregnant the 1st month both times!
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yeah our FH's def have their clocks ticking @ the same pace. We have had this convo and he is fine if I stop taking it b/f the wedding (HE EVEN GOT MY DAD ON HIS SIDE!!!! ) I plan on stopping BC once we come back from HM & let nature take her own course.
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uugghh mine too if it were up to him we would be having a baby right now... i keep telling him can we please get married first!!!
I am totally with you I do not want to be a pregnant bride ....i wanna be able to enjoy my sangria bar!!!
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My FH is getting like that now he wants a baby right away cause all his friends are having babies or just had one but then on Sat we took out my nephew who is 3months and my neice who is 2yrs and he was like oh mabey we can wait alittle for kids lol
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IMO... I definatly think you should be off of BC for at least 2 months. Give your body time to regulate normally. Buuuut I also agree with wanting to enjoy your wedding and honeymoon. What about going off of it right after the honeymoon. That is what we plan on doing... Wedding is at the end of May. Honeymoon is until June 12. Off the Pill and BEING CAREFUL June/July/August. and then whatever happens, HAPPENS I know easier said then done, lol
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I agree with going off right after the honeymoon.
And I hear yah on the baby front... FI wants a honeymoon baby!
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aww to cute!!! were hoping for a honeymoon munchkin lol so i will be getting off about 3 months before the wedding
wait till after the honeymoon is your very concerned!
If you go off bcp before the wedding, then you may have your period the day of the wedding. If you're on bcp and scheduled to have your period, you can just skip it (I'm assuming you know how to skip a period).
Does your FH drink? If he does, tell him that if you get pregnant before the wedding and can't drink at your own wedding, then you don't want him drinking either since this was his idea.. Maybe that will scare him.
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Posted by Marianne13
If you go off bcp before the wedding, then you may have your period the day of the wedding. If you're on bcp and scheduled to have your period, you can just skip it (I'm assuming you know how to skip a period).
Does your FH drink? If he does, tell him that if you get pregnant before the wedding and can't drink at your own wedding, then you don't want him drinking either since this was his idea.. Maybe that will scare him.
OMG...I just told FH about him not drinking at the RH and he's like then why are we spending the money on the martini bar and pouted.
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fh is the complete opposite! no babies for a few years!!
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Posted by Marianne13
If you go off bcp before the wedding, then you may have your period the day of the wedding. If you're on bcp and scheduled to have your period, you can just skip it (I'm assuming you know how to skip a period).
Does your FH drink? If he does, tell him that if you get pregnant before the wedding and can't drink at your own wedding, then you don't want him drinking either since this was his idea.. Maybe that will scare him.
OMG...I just told FH about him not drinking at the RH and he's like then why are we spending the money on the martini bar and pouted.
LMAO.. I am catching up from yesterday. Love how men react when the tables are turned.... BUT WHAT ABOUT THE MARTINI BAR HUNNY?
But i agree with Marianne13 If you go off just becareful with that WHITE DRESSS!!!!!
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fh is the complete opposite! no babies for a few years!!
FH is the same way!!!
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That happen to my sister she went off BC in the beginning of Jan, and at the end of the month she was preggers
