I feel like all I do lately is get annoyed with him. It seems like at least once throughout the day when I speak to him he puts me in a bad mood. Do you think I should be overyly concerned about this or do you think it will pass?
pickles16
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i'm in the same boat u are, i think its fairly normal...
CaCRmr
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It's normal but lemme tell you once it gets closer (like a week) till the wedding. EVERYTHING will annoy you because you're trying to put the whole thing together and some of his comments can bother you. WOW that just turned into a vent...sorry.
NO seriously, it will pass. I love my FH so much especially right now but with the wedding becoming so close I want everything to be perfect he sometimes gets on my nerves too.
nicknmb
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OK, I feel a little better already. I know I love him to death, it's just that sometimes the things he does or says get right under my skin!
mcaula
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It is normal for me it's because he is not helping with any of the planning of this wedding and it starting to get on my nerves.
I ask for his opinion on something and all he can say oh whatever you want. I bugs the crap out of me
pickles16
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It is normal for me it's because he is not helping with any of the planning of this wedding and it starting to get on my nerves.
I ask for his opinion on something and all he can say oh whatever you want. I bugs the crap out of me
I wish my FH said whatever you want, he has an opinon on EVERYTHING including the freaking flowers...and it has to be the complete opposite of mine!!!!!
buckles
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It is soooo normal! Same boat here too...BUT my FI complains when he isn't involved so I involve him and give him 2 MONTHS to complete 3 simple tasks and do you think he can get it done! Nope...does he even care nope.... Boys sometimes!
nov2004bride
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That is sooo normal. But it has been the opposite for us as we get closer. I have little left to do( I am so glad I did so much so early) and now we are just so excited and I feel more in love then ever. I am so lucky Hopefully it works out the same for you both
LuckyMe
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Well imagine having to live with his inlaws who think we're better off getting married in city hall so when you talk about it you get ignored. I fully understand where your coming from though. When we first deceided to get married 4 years ago(before the kids)FH was all whatever you want will be perfect and helpful. Once we put plans on hold because of the kids now that we've started planning again he is extremely opinionated to the point were he kinda makes fun of my ideas or gives me the 'You've gotta be kidding'! It got so bad once that I swore he was doing it to get out of marrying me so I called it off Stress is a wonderful thing right? Good Luck and don't worry it'll turn out fine and you'll laugh about it all after the reception.
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Posted by CaCRmr
It's normal but lemme tell you once it gets closer (like a week) till the wedding. EVERYTHING will annoy you because you're trying to put the whole thing together and some of his comments can bother you. WOW that just turned into a vent...sorry.
NO seriously, it will pass. I love my FH so much especially right now but with the wedding becoming so close I want everything to be perfect he sometimes gets on my nerves too.
OK, I feel a little better already. I know I love him to death, it's just that sometimes the things he does or says get right under my skin!
You just have to think about the fact that if you werent stressed about the wedding plans, the little things he is doing or saying probably wouldnt be annoying you so much.
rrdm782004
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i have been there, sometimes it better to not include the fi on certain things.
Butterflybride
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Planning a wedding is one of the most stressful times in your life. I've learned that you get aggrivated and you fight more often as the wedding gets closer. If you can make it through the planning though, you'll feel better than ever after the wedding day.
