Apparently he thinks that we can just have a wedding without any planning.
He didn't want to go to TWOTY...ok fine.
My sister called me Sunday and said she saw that there was a bridal expo this Saturday...he said if I really wanted him to go, he would. Of course, he wasn't too excited about it, but he's a guy, right?
So then I asked him tonight if he wanted to go to the Swan Club expo since that's on our list of halls and he said, 'But I'm already going to that expo with you on Saturday. Can't you call [one of my friends]?'
So I told him that I'm not calling my friend to go with me because I'm NOT marrying my friend, I'm marrying HIM and if he really doesn't want to do any of the planning, then I'll be more than happy to do everything and all he has to do is give me the checks and show up at the appointed hour.
Then he got mad at THAT
And they say women are indecisve!!!!!
MrsDrinkh20
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Awww Im sorry! Thats so frustrating...hang in there...try to talk to him rationally...you are totally right in feeling upset!
Mrs B to Be
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awwww well compromise.....bring a friend to the bridal expo....and make him go to the swan club.....the hall is something that the groom should play a major roll in deciding on......besides they serve hors d'ovures and drinks!!!! my FH LOVED going to the showcase at westbury manor and cant wait for the spring one in march! maybe he just needs to get bitten by the wedding bug!
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im so glad FH likes wedding stuff...otherwise i'd be yelling at him everyday....
maybe talk to him adn tell him how important it is to you that he comes w/ you
Im a Pepper
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aww I'm sorry about that! Men are generally not into this whole 'wedding' thing. it's really hard to get them on board with everything. He'll cool down and then you'll make up. Hope it didn't stress you out!
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I am sorry that you are going through this ... my FH is very invloved but my friends FH is like as much as he didn't like what you said.. it was definitely necessary i am GLAD YOU EXPRESSED YOURSELF hun!
PoppedInASnap
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Awwwww hun that stinks....
but you know what, enjoy the wedding planning even if its without him!!!!!!
Marissa09Bride
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It can suck when FH isn't into the whole wedding planning thing. Mine wanted to be involved originally, but after meeting with a bunch of vendors I could tell he was bored out of his mind and he told me that I could make all the decisions because he doesn't really care about anything other than marrying me. It's a sweet copout. Just try to be understanding that weddings really aren't a big deal for most guys. Your FH just wants to marry you! It can be frustrating to accept that, but after I did I realized that I could really do whatever I want with the wedding without compromising He'll probably be much more excited when the tastings come around.
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i feel your pain...FH thinks im crazy for planning a wedding that will be in 1 year and 7 months.
im sorry hes being annoying, maybe he'll come around.
CMS
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Thanks, girls.
He's really not that bad of a guy...he just doesn't want to do all the 'planning' stuff cause it's not the fun stuff.
That's what's frustrating!!!!!
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Posted by ddnsp618
i feel your pain...FH thinks im crazy for planning a wedding that will be in 1 year and 7 months.
im sorry hes being annoying, maybe he'll come around.
LOL mine too. He thought that when he proposed, he'd be able to wait months and months before hearing any wedding talk. Ha! WRONG! We've looked at 6 RH's and are probably looking at a couple of more this weekend. I just want the RH and church booked and then I can wait a little while to do the rest.
PoppedInASnap
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Is there any way to get him to get into it?
For me, I told fh that i wanted his ideas on themes, etc...and boom everything was set from there....
And even if i dont really agree with some of the things, I use his idea, and ask him about an alternative....
