FH is really pi*$%ng me off!!!!

Sorry had to say it!! Im getting married MArch 18th.... Ive been trying to get is Cornell buddies addresses from him in order to drop them off to the calligrapher for a month and he keeps telling me in a few days!! Ive finally lost it!! He said I need to RELAX ( the nerve of him to use the R word!!) He said i should just p/u the invites and give them to the calligrapher with what I have and he'll write out the rest when he gets them....for some reason that is just not good enough

Am I turning in bridezilla? or Am I correct in assuming that men truly dont understand!(maybe he just doesnt get it!!)


11/18/04 9:27:37 PM

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Posted by Elaina

Sorry had to say it!! Im getting married MArch 18th.... Ive been trying to get is Cornell buddies addresses from him in order to drop them off to the calligrapher for a month and he keeps telling me in a few days!! Ive finally lost it!! He said I need to RELAX ( the nerve of him to use the R word!!) He said i should just p/u the invites and give them to the calligrapher with what I have and he'll write out the rest when he gets them....for some reason that is just not good enough

Am I turning in bridezilla? or Am I correct in assuming that men truly dont understand!(maybe he just doesnt get it!!)


11/18/04 9:27:37 PM

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no you are not!!!!!! ray is the same way. i have been telling him to get me his friends address for like the last 6 months!!!!! i feel like i'm telling him every other day! what is up with men sometimes i swear!!!

and no it's not good enough!!! if you're going through the trouble of having a calligrapher you might as well do them all!

good luck! maybe some bribery will help....

Maybe if i wasnt so pissed off!! I wonder if im allowed to use that word on here??

Thanks

i know the feeling! i am still waiting for addresses from some of his fam and from MY DAD and STEPMOM!! i mean COME ON>....if you dont want any guests then FINE that is the way it will be...

OK-- i am going a little bridezilla...its fine...i am ok with it....that is why i have LIW to be my support group

Thats right!!
Thats more of we need a drink than a toast

they should rename this website bridezillas helping bridezillas

and I swore that i wasnt going to be one!!

Nothing bridezilla about it in my opinion! I told FH I needed certain addresses for his family members and he told me to call them! Yeah I could... But that's not the point! Maybe I'm busy doing everything else. And maybe they want to talk to him for once, they are his family!
As you can see I sympathize.
Maybe Azoodie's right.

i know you swore you werent going to be one...i swore too...

sometimes though i step back and wonder if i am....and if i am is it only to FH and my mom, the 2 that know me better than i know myself and knew when i said i woudnt be a bridezilla tha ti wouldnt be able to help it??

No he swears he can do calligraphy himself!! he's a many of many talents....or excuses!!

Oh you are SO NOT ALONE!!! I am FINALLY, getting his list after begging for it for three months, and now that he's giving it to me, he went over his allotment by 13 people and is COMPLAINING about having to come out of his pocket to pay for them!! Saying craziness like 'Most people won't eat anyway, I don't understand why all that extra would have to be paid.' Excuse me, the hall is not responsible for who doesn't eat their food! If you invite 150 people, you gotta PAY for 150 people. ARRRRGGGHHHH!!!!!

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Posted by ravens_bride

Nothing bridezilla about it in my opinion! I told FH I needed certain addresses for his family members and he told me to call them! Yeah I could... But that's not the point! Maybe I'm busy doing everything else. And maybe they want to talk to him for once, they are his family!
As you can see I sympathize.
Maybe Azoodie's right.

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only a bridezilla would say 'nothing bridezilla about it'!!!!!

he can do calligraphy himself????

then ask him why you are paying someone else to do it if he has such hidden talent

PS- i wasnt saying i thnk you are bridezilla....i was just wondering outloud that lately i MAY JUST BE ONE!!!

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Posted by azoodie

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Posted by ravens_bride

Nothing bridezilla about it in my opinion! I told FH I needed certain addresses for his family members and he told me to call them! Yeah I could... But that's not the point! Maybe I'm busy doing everything else. And maybe they want to talk to him for once, they are his family!
As you can see I sympathize.
Maybe Azoodie's right.

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only a bridezilla would say 'nothing bridezilla about it'!!!!!

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AZAD_---as usual you are SO on my wavelegnth!

my brother and ray are always making this squaking noise like crows when i start talking wedding....funny thing is, i don't think i'm one...but i guess that makes me one....

denial is the first step in recognizing that you're a bridezilla i suppose

i don't care!!!!!!!! i'm a bridezilla, and i'm proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by BethGail

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Posted by azoodie

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Posted by ravens_bride

Nothing bridezilla about it in my opinion! I told FH I needed certain addresses for his family members and he told me to call them! Yeah I could... But that's not the point! Maybe I'm busy doing everything else. And maybe they want to talk to him for once, they are his family!
As you can see I sympathize.
Maybe Azoodie's right.

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only a bridezilla would say 'nothing bridezilla about it'!!!!!

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AZAD_---as usual you are SO on my wavelegnth!

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funny i was thinking the same about fh doing the calligraphy!!!! maybe he can do mine while he's at it!!!!

ladies i am on the floor right now i can't take it!!!

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Posted by azoodie

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Posted by ravens_bride

Nothing bridezilla about it in my opinion! I told FH I needed certain addresses for his family members and he told me to call them! Yeah I could... But that's not the point! Maybe I'm busy doing everything else. And maybe they want to talk to him for once, they are his family!
As you can see I sympathize.
Maybe Azoodie's right.

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only a bridezilla would say 'nothing bridezilla about it'!!!!!

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Uh oh! And I still have 10 months to go! Wonder if I will have any family and friends left after this!!!

FH's DONOT understand !!
thats why we have each other !!

I do what is needed with the planning & touch base for the approval Nod

ie called jewler today to confirm
delivery Jan15 on bands

made receipts for final pymnts
to vendors

etc etc

would he think of this NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Just remember this... it will make life SOO much easier:::::


Girls go to college to get more knowledge.
Boys go to Jupiter, to get More STUPIDER!

ok... thats all of my wisdom for the night

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Posted by BethGail

he can do calligraphy himself????

then ask him why you are paying someone else to do it if he has such hidden talent

PS- i wasnt saying i thnk you are bridezilla....i was just wondering outloud that lately i MAY JUST BE ONE!!!

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No its totally cool i get it....but the truth of the matter is other than pregnancy heres my only shot at being a B*#*$ and having an excuse

Just joking were not being B's they are being ...well you ladies know!!

Mind you he sitting here right now getting a kick out of us talk about him and all the other FH's!!