He keeps bothering me about my NOT going to the gym lately and I only have like 3 months to go for the wedding...I mean Jeez...I work long hours and when I get home Im exhausted! But my point is that he doesn't need to make me feel like sh*t about my body....how rude huh?
Colette
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O wow I hear you!!! Mine's the same, he's trying to be cute but sometimes on the wrong day I just want to bop him. He gets off of work at 3pm so by the time i get home at 7 he's rested and ready to go: and I just want to collapse! I'd have all that energy too if i didnt have at least 5 wedding decisions to research every night!!
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O wow I hear you!!! Mine's the same, he's trying to be cute but sometimes on the wrong day I just want to bop him. He gets off of work at 3pm so by the time i get home at 7 he's rested and ready to go: and I just want to collapse! I'd have all that energy too if i didnt have at least 5 wedding decisions to research every night!!
EXACTLY!!! I told him if he's willing to do the running around for the wedding, I will be able to go to they gym...he couldn't handle that!
B22
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psssssssssh tell him to take a pill... you have 3 months.
XFINALLYX
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please its the opposite i always tell FH to go to the gym.
My FH is a pain also about the gym, he is right and he is trying to help me ( I won't tell him that), but the more he wants me to go the more I don't want to go. We go to the gym at 530am and get ready for work at the gym. It is sooooooo much easier that way because it is over with for the day. Try a different gym schedule and do a work out that doesn't take hours.
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Is he bugging you to try to help you, or because he doesn't want a flabby wife? Even if he is trying to help you, tell him that you're an adult, and you will go to the gym when you are able, you don't need his 'helpful' reminders. Does he really think the bride doesn't know when the wedding is, and how far away?
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Is he bugging you to try to help you, or because he doesn't want a flabby wife? Even if he is trying to help you, tell him that you're an adult, and you will go to the gym when you are able, you don't need his 'helpful' reminders. Does he really think the bride doesn't know when the wedding is, and how far away?
Its a little of both I guess. I do tend to complain about how I look in certain outfits lately...but he is SOOOOO into looks! I knew that when we dated but I didnt think he would be driving me crazy like this
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Grrr... post a pic and we'll all be able to tell you how CUTE you are. Mine's oblivious. If I gain 5 or lose 5, he doesn't notice; he wants me to go to the Gym for the mental health benefits, he sees i'm wound up and wants my ENDORPHINS to kick in. Gotta love him. So I joined NYSC June 1 & haven't set foot in there yet but I've lost 5 lbs so its WORKING! hahahahahaha i will be going this week and working with a trainer from now until the wedding though!!!
