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FH IS SO DIFFICULT!!!

SugaBeans Posted:

FH IS SO DIFFICULT!!!

we cant agree on a wedding song! he thinks all the song i like at stupid and 'gay' (sorry. dont mean to offend anyone) anyone else going through this??

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol i gave him a list of like 49 songs and all of them are to 'gay' he basically wants a song that isnt a love song lol

Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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LOL....I feel your pain!

Wedding999 Posted:

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ask him for a list - did he make any suggestions?

Kimbalina Posted:

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Marissa!! tell him to make a list of songs that he likes for you to review!

jennandrolo Posted:

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he doesnt think any songs are gay....we just cant come up with anything we like! im getting so frustrated. i know we have time but its still rough.

ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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Guys are such morons when it comes to this stuff.

They think that their manhood will be tainted if they show and emotion or just dance for 30 seconds to a song about emotions..lol

Make him suggest songs then!

Or- tell him you get to pick and thats final!
missliss Posted:

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I'm so in the same boat so don't think you're alone. But my FH only thinks that half the songs I've chosen are gay, the other half are queer. I can't win.
jcslady Posted:

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mine too! what a pain in the ***
he doesn't like any of my songs
JavyL008 Posted:

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I guess I should realize how lucky I am in this category as I ahve had my wedding picked out in my mind for some time and I actually warned him while we were dating that if we ever got married that is what my song was going to be...never a complaint...i'm sorry you girls are struggling here but unless he is going to offer up ideas of what he wants then he's going to have to go with one of your choices

KK Holiday Posted:

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i can't get FH even interested in any songs!!

everything i like and I play for him he throws his hands in the air and is like IM NOT DOING THAT!!!

geezzzz
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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aw don't feel bad! We are having the same problem!!!!

kellybean Posted:

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Im sure you will fing one !!!!

minibride08 Posted:

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WE ARE! LOL... still have no idea. I love cheesy, sappy, etc. and FH not so much. Song= TBD
Snick n Nick Posted:

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See my problem is the neither of us likes sappy songs.....what to choose, what to choose!

mathteach Posted:

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Posted by missliss

I'm so in the same boat so don't think you're alone. But my FH only thinks that half the songs I've chosen are gay, the other half are queer. I can't win.



His idea:The Wonder of You by Elvis. I love Elvis except that song. It sounds like its a 45rpm record being played at regular speed. (For those of you old enough to have had records)

Back-up choice 'anything by Journey'
tlp123 Posted:

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I thought that i was the only one with this problem.

SugaBeans Posted:

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Posted by missliss

I'm so in the same boat so don't think you're alone. But my FH only thinks that half the songs I've chosen are gay, the other half are queer. I can't win.




HAHAHAHA thats true!!!!!

if i let him pick the song, most of my guest would leave due to the graphic nature of the song!
november152008 Posted:

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easy solution you pick one song and let him pick one song and keep it a secret from each other and then the day of the wedding you can both have a special song for two dances together one your first dance when you first walk in and one dance after the cake or after you both dance with your parents...only tell the dj or band whatever you are having and have them only tell you the song if by chance you both pick the same song.....
just an idea
SugaBeans Posted:

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Posted by november152008

easy solution you pick one song and let him pick one song and keep it a secret from each other and then the day of the wedding you can both have a special song for two dances together one your first dance when you first walk in and one dance after the cake or after you both dance with your parents...only tell the dj or band whatever you are having and have them only tell you the song if by chance you both pick the same song.....
just an idea



WOW thats a great idea!!!

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