On Saturday night I asked FMIL to let me know who she was interested in inviting to the wedding. I was starting to panic as we have a minimum a 75 and I couldnt think of 75 people to invite. So when all was said and done, I think our list came out to about 95 people. On sunday I asked FH is he okay if we end up going over 75 people and he told me he's going to disinvite people. I told him that he couldnt do that, and he told me I was crazy and he would do it.
I think he might be nuts!
JenBill61210
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i wouldn't worry.... they say 20% of those invited will decline so i think you should be safe.
JenBill61210
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ahh and change your quote under your name! you look great! stop it!
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you should always invite more the your min. you never no how many will sawy no ...
AND PLEASE TELL HIM NOT TO DISINVITE PPL ... I WOULD BE EMBARRASSED FOR YOU !!! LOL
JC297
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H ELL will freeze over before he uninvites someone. I told him, if you dont want someone there, don't invite them in the first place. If we go over we go over.
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un invite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not disinvite..sorry .. i saw richbride,poor bride and they used 'disinvite' and i gto angry..ocd.
lol
well sorra! im glad to know u can have a rh with a 75 min. i was ready to just elope instead of having a wedding because neither of us have any family in the US.
invite the 95.. and if u dont meet your min.. u can always invite more. did u include vendors with your 75?
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Posted by Sora777
H ELL will freeze over before he uninvites someone. I told him, if you dont want someone there, don't invite them in the first place. If we go over we go over.
they did that on one of those wedding shows. i cant remember the name. i think my fair wedding or some crap that Jackie makes me watch with her all the time. the guy actually called people to make sure they were coming without a date. lol
grkbarbie
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rich bride,poor bride.. dude was soo controlling..but the chick needed a punch in the face
Reymiliz
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just imagine UNINVITING (barb) someone ...
' hey remember that wedding i told you about ' ' yeah , ypour not invited anymore' 'we still take gifts though, preferably cash'
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Posted by grkbarbie
rich bride,poor bride.. dude was soo controlling..but the chick needed a punch in the face
because it was his money. she didn't give a sh*t and was like give me give me give me
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you should definitely invite more than your minimum and that would just be crazy to un-invite someone
I thought that was craziness on rich bride, poor bride
Invite about 30 more people. And you can have more than your minimum there? Is it a cost issue for you?
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Posted by grkbarbie
un invite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not disinvite..sorry .. i saw richbride,poor bride and they used 'disinvite' and i gto angry..ocd.
lol
well sorra! im glad to know u can have a rh with a 75 min. i was ready to just elope instead of having a wedding because neither of us have any family in the US.
invite the 95.. and if u dont meet your min.. u can always invite more. did u include vendors with your 75?
Barb! I totally got disinvite from rich bride poor bride..
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Invite about 30 more people. And you can have more than your minimum there? Is it a cost issue for you?
Its a cost issue. unless someone else is paying for the wedding for you, a wedding almost always is a losing proposition. we are having 75 people, if every person gives $100 (some will give less some will give more) at the end of the day we havent even paid for the reception hall.
but we are doing it because its what makes me happy. I wanted one day in my life to get dressed up and feel really special. I didnt have a sweet 16, I didnt go to prom and I was a 2nd class citizen at my brothers wedding.
grkbarbie
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sora, we have wayyy too much in common..every single one of ur replies, i feel like its me typing
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JC297
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i think we are going to end up under even if we invite over the min.
I think it's going to be harder and harder for people to come to weddings due to the economy.