FH left for his bachelor party!!

Tonight they all went out to a stripclub
Not that I'm happy about that but I'm glad it will all be over with in a couple hours. Next weekend is my bachelorette party & I can't wait. Things are feeling so real!!! All the guys looked so cute all dressed up!! All I could think was that these guys will be seeing me in a white dress in just 6 weeks!!!

Just remember that he is coming home to you!!!!! And you have him forever!!!

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Posted by ahall04

Just remember that he is coming home to you!!!!! And you have him forever!!!

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I know. Unfortunately he is the 1st of his friends to be getting married so there will be many more nights like this. Biys will be boys!!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsB

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Posted by ahall04

Just remember that he is coming home to you!!!!! And you have him forever!!!

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I know. Unfortunately he is the 1st of his friends to be getting married so there will be many more nights like this. Biys will be boys!!

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my dh went to one for his. when he came home, he told me that strip clubs aren't the same. he said it shows him what's waiting for him when he g ets home

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Posted by Happybride2005

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Posted by Soon2BMrsB

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Posted by ahall04

Just remember that he is coming home to you!!!!! And you have him forever!!!

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I know. Unfortunately he is the 1st of his friends to be getting married so there will be many more nights like this. Biys will be boys!!

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my dh went to one for his. when he came home, he told me that strip clubs aren't the same. he said it shows him what's waiting for him when he g ets home

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That was so sweet of him!! I know him & his friends used to go all the time & all it is is to have a good time with friends...nothing more! He'll be crawling through the door in a few hours!!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsB

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Posted by ahall04

Just remember that he is coming home to you!!!!! And you have him forever!!!

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I know. Unfortunately he is the 1st of his friends to be getting married so there will be many more nights like this. Biys will be boys!!

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US too, I know what you mean!

Also, my FH says that most of the girls at strip clubs are not the kind of girls you would want to go anywhere near .... (no offense to anyone who may be a stripper ! ) No Worries!!!

oh I know how you feel, my FH is now at my cousin's bachelor party (a strip club) while I sit home by myself

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Posted by Soon2BMrsB

I'm not worried...it's just the fact that you know what's going on. And knowing his friends...they must be buying him lap dances left & right!!!

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I know it $ucks but unfotunately we have to deal with it. I still get beotchy every time FI goes to a bachelor party (I just can't stop myself).

I dont see why people accept this as a fact of life. I have told FH no strip clubs and he's agreed. He understands they upset me and he thinks they are stupid anyway so there is no point in upsetting me over something he doens't like anyway.

Oh, and if all these guys keep calling their girls from the strip club that they suck and all that jazz...why even bother wasting your money on such places, just stay home or do some other thing manly, but it seems like guys go because they think they have to and they dont have to.

It's over now!!!

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Posted by babybug631

It's over now!!!

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YAY!!!

He wasn't even drunk when he came home...said he had a bad headache which actually began yesterday morning! However...we got in an ugly arguement before
I did something kind of stuipid but it was all out of anger.
I went to do laundry this afternoon & saw the shirt he wore last night in the washer. Apparently at 3am when he got home he decided to wash his shirt. Now, after knowing where he was you all must know what I was thinking...he must have gotten something nasty on his shirt or it must have had some nasty odor from the strip club. I was P-O'd!! I was soooooooooo disgusted & grossed out. I took the shirt out of the washer with a piece of wood (I wasn't touching that thing)& threw it in the garbage . FH went to switch his laundry & when he realized it was missing, went to look for it. Then he asked 'Is there any reason you threw out my shirt?' Then words were thrown back & forth. He claims he had dirt & beer on it & wanted to try & get it out before it stained...sounded like BS to me. Honestly, I know he wouldn't lie about his explanation...it's just not him. I felt bad & ended up taking the shirt out of the garbage and re-washed it. I think FH is still abit angry with me b/c he asked for an apology but I didn't give him one.
Not for nothing but I was laughing when I did it...I crack myself up sometimes!
Sorry so long!

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Posted by Tiggeruth

I dont see why people accept this as a fact of life. I have told FH no strip clubs and he's agreed. He understands they upset me and he thinks they are stupid anyway so there is no point in upsetting me over something he doens't like anyway.

Oh, and if all these guys keep calling their girls from the strip club that they suck and all that jazz...why even bother wasting your money on such places, just stay home or do some other thing manly, but it seems like guys go because they think they have to and they dont have to.

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I feel the same way. I told FH no strip clubs, he said 'don't worry, I don't like them anyway, it's something I used to do when I was 19.' Last night he went out with the guys to celebrate his last weekend as a single guy. They went to a Korean bbq place, and then to a bar with a live band. He and his friends all had a great time, despite the weather, and I went out to dinner with my girls and for a few drinks at some classy places. If you both are ok with strip clubs, then fine, but if something makes you irritable or uncomfortable, speak up. FH wouldn't do anything to upset me and I wouldn't do anything that would upset him.

Don't worry have trust. It will all be ok!