FH loves to make me go into a panic - LONG

I AM SO ANGRY but yet i feel its a good point that FH raised earlier today when he called to ask about the Ireland honeymoon. He goes I really dont' want to do this but i will for you in a nasty tone. I was like ***????? after i contacted travel tom and make the guy start researching stuff. FH is like i don't want to sit on a bus for hours and drive through things. I want a relaxing hm but we get to still see things.

CIE tours which i have done two years ago give you a lot to see but you are on the bus a lot and driving around. You have to wake up by 7 a.m. daily and fh says that is fine but not every day since then your dead at 11 and going to bed and never going out to do the pubs.

SO i had to contact travel tom and PRAY he doesn't can us as a client and ask him for pricing/tour info on just going to dublin for a few days and doing our own thing there then taking a train to go to galway where we we stay for a few days and take a day tour to the ring of kerry/cliffs of moher and then another tour to maybe another site but other then that we get to sit and explore the city itself based out where we are staying and no touring daily. Still a total of 11 days so we might go to kinsale on top of that or killarney for a few nights.

Also he flipped out when i get pricing on how much it would be to take photographs all dressed up. They wanted $1,800 for half a day for two photographers to take us out and do photographs and for hires cd of the pictures. He said he would of been so pissed if i booked it - so therefore we are not doing photographs in ireland professionaly

I think your FHs concerns are reasonable. FH was concerned about a cruise for those reasons. Tom will not can you as a client. I changed my mind three times already with him and he's been so patient. Things will work out fine

Dont worry Tom will help you with whatever that is!!! You are allowed to change your mind!!

Sorry to hear that those photographs are so expensive

at least it hasn't been paid for. FH and I have a more difficult time compromising recently than ever before, usually on stupid stuff. My problem with compromising is it seems I am ALWAYS the one to fold and be gracious.

If you don't do this as a honeymoon, maybe you can do it with a friend who will be as eager to go as you are.

I realize Tahiti is for honey mooners but Paul doesn't want to go, so my best friend and I might.

I don't even care if people think we are gay!
ha

I hope you all figure it out!